what do i do if i told someone something, and i'm not sure if she is going to tell someone else?
2006-11-06 13:08:59 · 25 answers · asked by Jessie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There's not much you can do at this point. If you told someone something and they end up telling someone else, and you didn't want them to, then you have learned an important lesson in life which is not to trust anyone. Sometimes it's best just to keep things to yourself if it would be hurtful to you for them to get out. Hopefeully the person doesn't tell - then you will have found a trustworthy person, but they are rare. I hope you will learn from this and be more careful who you tell things to. Good luck.
2006-11-06 13:13:09 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What would happen if she does tell? Got the answer ? Try to tell before she does even if it may be difficult better you say something first before she does. Learn form this and never tell stuff you should not.
2006-11-07 11:16:38 · answer #2 · answered by dettie 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You can ask her not to tell, but you surely can't control her mouth.
What you can do is: Learn a lesson from this, and be careful who you tell next time.
2006-11-06 21:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by me 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if thats the only person you told you should wait to see if it comes back to you and then you will know if they told and if they did let them know that you know that they told and just be careful who you tell things to cause ppl can be deceiving trust me!
2006-11-06 21:11:33 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs.Carter 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you can tell them you you told them whatever it is in confidence and that you don't want them to go and tell anyone...tell them about your level of trust and how you won't be able to trust them with things like that again! good luck!
2006-11-06 21:10:52 · answer #5 · answered by gabby' 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You need to first take a breath and relax.
Do you trust her? That's your key--if you do, then you have nothing to worry about. If you don't, then have a lot to work out among yourself.
2006-11-06 21:10:33 · answer #6 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
there's nothing u can really do except tell that person that u would hope that she could keep what ever u told her to herself
2006-11-06 21:10:58 · answer #7 · answered by <3 Kaitlyn* 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
u should ask them if they are going to tell anyone or if they have told anyone and if they havnt tell them not to tell anyone else
2006-11-06 21:12:03 · answer #8 · answered by u are wierd 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well? how many people did you tell? if its only that someone and it went out.. then learn your lesson.. never tell that someone again!
2006-11-06 21:11:43 · answer #9 · answered by wingless angel 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
That depends. Edit your question and tell us what you told her.
2006-11-06 21:10:38 · answer #10 · answered by garfield 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋