My GF and I want to have a trisom and we are looking for the right person to do it, we boyh agree and are really exited about it, but i get a little scared when I thin what's going to happen in our relationship after that. If someone has gono through it please give me some advice...(I really love her)
2006-11-06 13:03:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think a threesome is too good for a young relationship if it is one. If it's a strong relationship then do what makes you happy. I'm don't think you'll be happy afterwards though with another man having his way with your girl niether will she be happy with you banging another girl. So if you love her I would suggest you don't.
2006-11-06 13:07:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Threesomes are great to fantasize about but are usually not as much fun as they seem like they'll be. People often feel self-conscious and uncomfortable.
You didn't say whether the third person will be male or female, but it's common for the person of the same sex as the third to compare themselves to the other person. This can lead to insecurity and hurt feelings in the relationship....
I'd say don't do it. If you do, it's best to go out of town and do it with someone you don;t know and will never have to see again. Best not to though, it only leads to trouble....
2006-11-06 21:16:33 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. Switch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A threesome with someone you deeply care for is often a very bad idea. If you're already have misgivings, I'd strongly strongly advise not doing it. This is one of those choices that you have to make, and regeret is a bummer. Don't let your friends influence you, do what's right for you.
2006-11-06 21:07:11 · answer #3 · answered by captainmcsorley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't. And if you're thinking about having a threesome, don't have one of those either.
Aside from being a bad idea, it doesn't sound like your relationship will hold up under the pressure of it.
2006-11-06 21:06:34 · answer #4 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think that this is such a good idea. think about it, do you really wanna share your woman with someone else? the fact that you are a bit scared should tell you that you shouldn't go through with it. It may be something that seem like a good idea but later on i am sure you both will have regrets.
2006-11-06 21:42:20 · answer #5 · answered by mysticshabs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of the best things in life is trying out new things you can go with what other people say but you will never find out if you do or dont really like it. Threesome is the best thing that happend to me I did it with my girl and my best friend he was owsome
2006-11-06 21:34:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i allowed a threesome to be entered into my relationship and while it was fun and exciting while it happened it is the single worst thing i have ever done :( the relationship has never been the same and never will be
2006-11-06 21:05:46 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a threesome can break a relationship if you are both not 100% sure about wanting it, and completely free of insecurity and jealousy re: your relationship and each other...
If there's any chance of the above occuring...don't risk it...
If you're sure you are kewl with it...enjoy...it can be a neat experience...
2006-11-06 21:05:59 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a touchy area, there is like a 85 % chance of drama and her liking the other better...........i understand the curiosity, but i don't think i could ever handle the drama that could easily go along wiht it
2006-11-06 21:05:30 · answer #9 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is spelled threesome - and do not do it. It will open all kinds of nasty things up in the rlelationship.
2006-11-06 21:04:36 · answer #10 · answered by chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋