I'm 24 years old and I have always been a loner It seem the only time I am happy is when I am spending time with my children. I am currently in college and I guess I am just tired of being this way. Do you have any advice for me at all about how I should go about changing my current sistuation
2006-11-06 12:54:46 · 9 answers · asked by Missy_Eye's 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Go out and do things with friends. If your friends suggest an activity and it doesn't sound like a bad idea, then accept the invitation. Otherwise, think of an activity and suggest it to a friend. Just go for it even though you feel unsure about the activity. Go skiing, hiking, dancing, golf, drinks, movie, shopping, concert, campus party, etc. Join a club and get involved. Make friends and then make sure you maintain contact. Once your life is filled with friends, you will be super busy and you will no longer be a loner.
2006-11-06 13:03:42 · answer #1 · answered by eddygordo19 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on what kind of friends you're trying to make. Perhaps you could meet some adults who you'd have some things in common at a community children's event. Making new acquaintances isn't always easy, and don't be discouraged if your first impressions aren't correct. Be patient and eager, it takes time. Good friendships take time to cultivate, but are well worth it.
2006-11-06 20:59:28 · answer #2 · answered by captainmcsorley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haven't you bonded with anyone at college? Honey, you have got to start living for you. Of course it is wonderful when you see your children, but darling you have got to start enjoying your life.
Why are you a loner? Shy? Don't trust? Don't want to be hurt?
Life has no guarantee, as you know. But, we don't stop loving because our first lost is no more or our parents is no more. Life is worth living so live it and love it.
2006-11-06 21:06:07 · answer #3 · answered by enigma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a new life, try something different, change your daily activities, be open to meeting new people, and don't exempt your children in your new life, they could make up part of the big picture, cheers
2006-11-06 21:07:07 · answer #4 · answered by Victor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are happy when you are with your children ,I admire you and think that is great. At the right time something will happen that will change your life. Love those kids always.
2006-11-06 21:02:28 · answer #5 · answered by ALICE B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, just get involved in things. like clubs, join groups or join the YMCA and find activities. go and out see people. have fun. enjoy life! :)
2006-11-06 21:01:07 · answer #6 · answered by smile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
clubs like sports or making jewelery...activities with kids???
2006-11-06 20:57:32 · answer #7 · answered by yahoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a change somewhere...........pt job or workout, the smallest changes can make a difference
2006-11-06 20:57:13 · answer #8 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go out and meet people. maybe you will meet a hot girl
2006-11-06 20:56:49 · answer #9 · answered by Miss Mai Tai 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋