I know that this average vagina is 3 to 4 inches long, and that during sexual arousal is widens and lenthens to accomodate a man. My bf has felt around up there and swears he can feel my cervix, and because of this he thinks I will be "too small" for him and is hesitant to have intercourse. He said I was plenty turned on when he was fingering me, so my vagina should have lengthened, and the fact it didn't distrubs him. So, my question is, does a vagina always lengthen to the same point, or does it lengthen just to accommodate whatever is in there at the time? I suppose that it is also a possibility that I was not as aroused as my bf thought. Maybe not enough foreplay?
2006-11-06 12:49:13 · 8 answers · asked by GadgetGrl 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
First of all... Of COURSE he could feel your cervix! When a doctor gives you your anual exam they feel your cervix and uterus. When a woman is pregnant, the doctors just put their fingers inside and feel her cervix. THAT has nothing to do with how much you can accomodate.... As for the other thing... YOU CAN accomodate his member.... Women and men are MADE to fit together. Sexual arousal has nothing to do with how much room you make, it has everything to do with how much lubrication you produce. A woman's vagina can push out a baby, so don't worry about a little pee pee. (no matter how big it is, it'll never be as big as a baby lol)
2006-11-06 13:20:21 · answer #1 · answered by ms pokeylope 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Why is your boyfriend telling you how aroused you are? You should be the one who determines that! It's ridiculous for your boyfriend to do that for you.
As for your vagina, it may start to lengthen more or it may be that your boyfriend will rarely be able to put his penis all the way inside you but, there really is no need for that anyways. This isn't something that you should be worrying too much about. Just relax and get to it! Both the penis and the vagina don't need stimulation after a few inches anyways. Your boyfriend should tell you that the base of his penis is not nearly as sensitive as the head and he doesn't need to go all the way in. For some people it's a mental thing though and they enjoy the thought but, talk to him!
My lover is on the larger size (8 inches) but, I rarely ever feel him hitting my cervix. I had a previous lover who was smaller (6 inches) and he would bump my cervix from time to time so, it really just depends. You may also want to try different positions when having sex. Some positions lessen the chances of cervix hitting like doggy style. Also, if you are on top, you can do what feels comfortable to you.
2006-11-06 12:58:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Vagina Expand
2016-12-10 14:50:55 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Riding a bike often may stretch a woman's vagina.
2016-11-25 06:11:11 · answer #4 · answered by Nole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The length of the vagina at the posterior wall is 41/2 inches and at the anterior wall it is 31/2 inches. The transverse folds present in the vaginal wall of nulliparous women allow the vagina to stretch and dilate during the intercourse and delivery.
2016-03-17 06:35:37 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless he has a truely massive penis, like close to a foot long, it will fit, just take your time. make sure you are good and wet, have him finger or lick you for a few minutes, then apply a GEL based lubricant to your vagina, and his penis. You should be on top so that you can control how deep he goes into you.
2006-11-06 14:23:01 · answer #6 · answered by knihelpu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
~it really depends on your anatomy, but make sure you are fully aroused, and it may hurt the first few times if he is too large, so use lots of foreplay. Best of luck!~
2006-11-06 13:18:44 · answer #7 · answered by pattiwish 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It varies due to the circumference of what is causing the arousal.
2006-11-06 12:51:34 · answer #8 · answered by Pundit Bandit 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
it will fit trust me.
2006-11-06 12:51:56 · answer #9 · answered by ya girl 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋