Sorry to hear that. I would suggest you don't dwell on what you can't fix. You loved this person and it will never change. Perhaps your paths will cross again. If they do not, just be happy that you had the opportunity. The reason you feel the way you do right now is because you are still mourning the loss. In time you will fell better. You have to make the effort to get busy working, hanging out with friends or studying. Occupy your time with a passion that you enjoy and just continue to wake up every morning. It will get better. Hope this helps...
2006-11-06 12:49:06
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answered by Making Them Listen 3
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2 words.
move on
there will be another person that u will love in the world. go to church to get some counseling the only reason for why u feel what u feel is because u havent met the second person yet and ur heart is lieing to u.
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MOVE ON!!
when ur times r tough music can help u move on with ur life dont listen to those sad songs or the rock and roll ones listen to some funny songs read some jokes be happy. A happy life is all that matters.
2006-11-06 12:49:09
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answered by Jason Z 3
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Oh no. That song...ouch. When it first came out, I used that song to ask a girl out...therefore when i screwed up (quite bad), that song stayed in my head and scar me. And I got a bad news for you, you can never replaced someone.
BUT, you can move on. Like i did. You move on by doing new things, meeting new people and also in your case, listen to some other songs (some songs that tells you how to survive on your own). Eventually you'll be back on your two feet and find love again.
2006-11-06 14:24:53
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answered by perfectly_messy 2
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Look, the past is the past, you can't return. There are people are over the world, you will never replace that friend because he will always be in your heart no matter what. Get new friends, know people better, although you can find someone similar to him someday or even better who knows what the future holds! Just reflect on your emotions, friends are forever, you'll see him one day, probably. Just forget the past and live on the future, hard things happen, ignore them, that is what makes someone special in the world....
2006-11-06 12:49:32
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answered by JMCG 3
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Very profound loss. You will only be able to move on when you get deeply into your feelings of loss and feel them all the way through to the other side when you are able to quietly put them down and continue with your life. Do not be surprised if the two of you meet again. It is a very small world. Best to you, always. - Chris.
2006-11-06 13:05:47
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answered by Anonymous
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Was going out with a girl or 4 years...long time. You have to stop listening to any sad songs or dwelling in the negative feelings that are natural.
You won't take this in, as i've been there and know, but you have to try and see any positive sides to your life. I know you'll have to search when you're feeling like this, but you will find them, and it will take a little time... but you will find it...
All the best my friend
AdamB
2006-11-06 12:48:40
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answered by Anonymous
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Darling i understand the type you sense.I too lost a love,who to boot my surpassed on mom,grew to become into the only individual in my existence,who grew to become into consistently there for me while i mandatory somebody who cared and enjoyed me..in comparison to your self,he did no longer die,yet I foolishly threw him away,with the aid of fact i grew to become into too blind on the time, to attain the useful individual than I had at my part, i've got considering walked on my own with loneliness and sense sorry approximately..And while somebody like that's no longer on your existence anymore,it particularly is a lonely and tortuous adventure on my own. particularly in case you're youthful,people permit you already know which you will meet yet another guy,and fall in like to fill your the void which you permit out.yet reality is that each and every physique is unique of their love,and kindness in direction of us, and no person can replace the particular chemistry which you had with tat individual. so as a youthful lady,( i've got confidence,which you're rather "no longer over the hill") depart your self open to love returned.it could't be the comparable as your lost love,even though it particularly is going to ease many of the torture of lacking the coolest boyfriend which you lost- in case you walk with somebody new via the destiny.
2016-10-03 08:52:37
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answered by ? 4
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everything always works out. it will just happen.you know the old saying? "time heals all wounds" i always thought it should also say "eventually."
that kind of time is surely s l o w.
i remember hurting for almost 2 years once when i was younger.
as you age you get tougher.experience also makes ya tough.
speaking of... i gotta go. one of my ex's that crushed me once upon a time ,is here. were great friends tho. perspective alteration is a good thing...
2006-11-06 13:06:24
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answered by mechlined 2
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i have lost my son recently....but if i were to have another i wouldn't react that way, i realized what in life should be cherished, and wished i had more time, but i'm still here and bc of that i believe god wants me to keep loving those who need or deserve it to save them or help them to go along the right path........may sound dumb, but with a loss like this i have to think that or i would never get by
ur still here, god hasn't finished with u he wants ur heart and love for someone who needs to be saved or protected
2006-11-06 12:47:29
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answered by harmonieclark 4
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TRUE LOVE IS NOT REPLACABLE. BUT THERE ALWAYS ROOM FOR A NEW LOVE. PERSONALLY I WOULD PRAY TO FIND THAT PERSON, U MIGHT JUST FIND YOUR FRIEND AGAIN. WRITE LETTER TO YOUR FRIEND AND BOX THEM AWAY COULD SOMETIMES THAT HELPS TO JOURNAL YOUR THOUGHTS.TIME IS REALLY YOUR ONLY ANSWER TO YOUR ANSWER!
2006-11-06 12:50:26
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answered by bleudivabubbles 1
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