ok so here is my story this guy told my friends that i talked crap about them and yeah.... so after that we werent friends any more and then that guy still told them that i "said" that she did drugs but I didnt and now my friend wants to fight me and I dont know if I should fight or back down???? please help me
2006-11-06 12:10:45 · 13 answers · asked by Lindsay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell them to grow up... There are bigger things in life. It sounds like you might need to find some better people to hang out with. By the way... Fighting is TRASHY!!!
2006-11-06 12:14:06 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
High School drama. Let it go darlin. You will learn it isn't worth it when you get out on your own I promise. Like our Lord said, "if a man slaps you across one cheek turn and give him the other cheek." ( I am sorry I don't have my Bible to get the EXACT words but that is the just of it!!) Do not fight, it takes a bigger and stronger person to fight their flesh and back down. Even though others may believe lies all that matters is how you feel and those who are MOST important around you, not someone who is insecure with themselves. Know who your loved ones are and they will give you guidence. God Bless!
2006-11-06 20:14:49 · answer #2 · answered by Hillary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not fight. Explain that you made a mistake, that you are sorry, that you would do whatever it takes to make it up (within reason), and that if you do not get forgiven, explain that that is OK too. Wish that person luck but tell them that whatever, fighting will not make things better for them or for you. Stay out of trouble.
2006-11-06 20:14:33 · answer #3 · answered by kellenraid 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well any friend that wants to fight you probably isn't worth it anyways. I would just talk to her (maybe e-mail or ina=stant messenger) and try to work it out like that. She needs to know the truth and it needs to come from you not someone else. Talk dont fight.
2006-11-06 20:27:54 · answer #4 · answered by Crouton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK so you should try and reason with her first..but if she doesnt want to hear it then i guess you msut fight but i thnk you should beat the crap out of the guy who is tellin lies..what an **shole
2006-11-06 20:14:10 · answer #5 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She seems unable to face the truth.
Your'e in the right but it's not worth the fight.
2006-11-06 20:19:34 · answer #6 · answered by upcomingplayer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them the truth, that you really didn't say that and that you won't fight them. Fighting will get you no where. Hope everything works out. :)
2006-11-06 20:12:46 · answer #7 · answered by Devon M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be the bigger person and don't start nothin (but if she lay her hands on you first, tear her butt up) if she wanna be ignorant and not believe you in the first place, she ain't worth havin as a friend.. as for the guy who lied on you in the first place... well, i'm not gonna say what i think about him...
2006-11-06 20:16:41 · answer #8 · answered by michelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is really your friend you will be able to tell her the truth and she will believe you. If she doesn't she isn't a good friend.
2006-11-06 20:31:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away, it's not worth fighting about
2006-11-06 20:12:33 · answer #10 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋