I haveen married to my husband for 8 months now. we are very happy and very much in love.. He adores me and loves me so much and he is very loyal so i have no complaints about him. But lately for some reason i have been having these weird dreams. For example last night I saw my husband cuddling and kissing some other woman in front of me , i dont know who she was but he knew who she was. It was such a disturbig dream that i woke up with so much anger i wanted to smack him in the head while he was sleeping next to me. I am somewhat you can say jealous wife in a way but i dont know why eithe. I get hit on alot and get complimented everywhere i go even if i am with my husband and his friends say to him he is such a lucky guy even strangers tel lhim that........so even he doesnt know why i am jealous....do you guys know what this dream might mean or is it just my jealously getting into my dreams now? ( i am not overly jealous but i dont like sharing m man..in any way)
2006-11-06 12:08:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
how do i stop being jealous? i have no reason too and ppl close to me think it is crazy for me to be jealous of my husband but i tell them it has nth do with looks...has any of you learn to get over jealousy?
2006-11-06 12:29:13 · update #1
Dreams of your husband with another woman, is just your insecurities coming out. My husband has had dreams of me having an affair on him, and wake up mad at me, and we've been married 17 years. Something probably just made you a little insecure, a few days or so, and it came out in your dream. Don't overthink it, or it will drive you crazy. : )
2006-11-06 12:15:40 · answer #1 · answered by Gaia Weeps 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I get the impression that you may trust him but consciously may not. I am currently in the same situation. My bf of 8 years has all of sudden done this drastic turn around in life. He has been very committed to me all these years but I always still have this feeling that he will leave. He recently went back to college and seems to flirt a lot with other woman. I recently found him getting texts from another girl that is a friend. I know we have all this but I feel he can throw it away. Get in touch with yourself and deal with the conflict early on. It may be innocent from your jealously or you have have a doubt of his commitment to you.
2006-11-06 12:16:15 · answer #2 · answered by justmesmiling25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt worry hun,its just a dream and most of the time dreams mean nothing..maybe you were jsut thinking about him cheating right beforeyou fell asleep or maybe you watched it on tv..but that doesnt meanhe is actually doing it..dont worry girl..its all good..you should try counseling though for your jealousy..good luck
2006-11-06 12:23:47 · answer #3 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not let dreams interfere with my marriage if I was you.
Every person has different opinions, but myself I do not let dreams bother me. If I worried about every dream that I had with different women, and couples I would not be able to concentrate on my work.
2006-11-06 12:13:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your insecurities have manifested themselves in a dream state. Dreams are a good way of learning about ourselves. Use this to better yourself. You need to learn to trust your husband, or matters will get worse.
2006-11-06 12:12:46 · answer #5 · answered by Bill 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i are transforming into to be tale recommendations from somewhat shiny, weird and wonderful desires, yet they consistently become hurriedly-scribbled notes or, at proper, meandering short memories. I do have desires containing my characters, nevertheless, which - i think of, or desire - is a competent element in terms of progression and understanding my characters and all that grand stuff. fantastically adequate, i've got two times had a dream regarding a author buddy of mine's character, named gray. some people have been making plans on killing him and that i knew he grew to become into going to die, yet I went all-out attempting to maintain him. It grew to become into somewhat epic, somewhat. speeding into fights, leaping off staircases, dumping buckets of paint on people, the full shebang. don't comprehend the place it got here from, or why it grew to become into that particular character out of all the characters it ought to've been. regardless of the shown fact that it grew to become into quite demanding - I had this clutching, pressing rigidity during the full element. anyhow.
2016-12-28 14:50:17 · answer #6 · answered by valaria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-07 04:35:51 · answer #7 · answered by Spirita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry we all have some strange dreams with nothing common with reality. I thing if you have more life - you get more dreams. Have a good sleep.
2006-11-06 12:13:04 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that somewhere deep in your subconscious, u are afraid of losing him to another woman. I think that your jealousy has a lot to do with it also.
2006-11-06 12:13:51 · answer #9 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams can be just that...dreams. It may be your subconscious telling you something or it may be nothing. It's probably not about your husband, but about yourself.
2006-11-06 12:12:29 · answer #10 · answered by No Way 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋