2006-11-06 12:03:42 · 12 answers · asked by Adan M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't look. love them. You will know in your heart already if they are cheating they treat you badly (or just worse than a day that they are tired) and aren't as thoughtful.
But seriously don't look. Have you chosen to love? do you want to keep the relationship?
2006-11-06 12:41:58 · answer #1 · answered by Abbasangel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're asking, there's a reason. Look at that reason and question your motives. Any adult can answer that question a million different ways, but mostly I think you can feel it. A change in attitude, your sex life, time out with friends instead of you, a lack of interest in you or continually criticizing you on minute items, starting silly arguments to get out....there's so many signs it's sad. Take what you have and look further. I hope your wrong, I wasn't and it hurts like the devil.
2006-11-06 20:14:56 · answer #2 · answered by crkristy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The tell tell signs are not coming home from work, seeking conversations over the phone while you are in the next room, always want private es, never taking you out, lie for no reasons just lie over anything and Loves to start a fight or some stupid argument in order to go outside and play. Just total being a a** hole.
2006-11-06 20:20:52 · answer #3 · answered by Rhonda S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot. If they suddenly take more interest in their appearance, they seem to be happier at times, they are different in bed. Interests in new things. Tips, check the odometer, redial on the phone. Sudden hang ups when you walk in. If you already know the answer to a question, ask anyway just to see what kind of answer you get.
2006-11-06 23:40:05 · answer #4 · answered by shyone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A remarkable change in behaviour, such as secrecy, evasiveness, staying out later than usual or coming home late. Also, being defensive when questioned and uncommunicative. General strange behaviour that leave no logical explanations are something to watch out for.
2006-11-06 20:13:13 · answer #5 · answered by salstick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your spouse treats you differently in public(around friends) than how they do at home......they may be cheating.
2006-11-06 20:50:25 · answer #6 · answered by folklore 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here's a few signs...not answering thier cell phone, and calling back more than 4 hours later...Leaving to meet friends you haven't met and they don't want you to meet..Coming in late at night, like after 1am..changing thier story about where they've been and last but not least, what kind of underware/panties did they wear that night?? That says a lot believe it or not.
2006-11-06 20:14:02 · answer #7 · answered by kravenrachel1982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many different signs.The obvious is a change in their appearances.Being away from home alot more.Neglecting their duty's at home.Especially in the making love department.Another sign is finding phone # in hiden places.
2006-11-06 20:35:21 · answer #8 · answered by star_utsf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are several signs, if they start changing the way they dress
suddenly buy a really expensive car, not paying attention to you
always gone,no longer want to to go anywhere with you,not with you on the holidays
need I say more?
2006-11-06 20:10:37 · answer #9 · answered by msalb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too much unaccounted for time,change in dress, "wrong number calls hang up calls" working late. or you just get that feeling somethings not right
2006-11-06 20:14:46 · answer #10 · answered by jewels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋