I was never blessed with a child but have spoiled all my nieces and nephews and step children. I would give anything to have one of my own to hold and call me mommy but it wasn't in God's plans for me. Then I read and hear of all these children being thrown into garbage cans and left in the streets and it breaks my heart. The welfare sytems are set up so they think if you aren't wealthy enough you can't give a child love. I would sacrifice all that God gave me for the opportunity but I don't make enough money they say. What more does a child need than unconditional love and guidance? Isn't there someone out there that feels the same way? My friends make fun of me because they say I take in all strays . Cats,dogs,kids,anything that comes to my door will be fed something and if needed a warm place to sleep. Why are they making it so hard? Then you read about foster parents who take money for giving the children a place to stay and abusing them. I wouldn't ask them for anything.
2006-11-06 12:02:42 · 6 answers · asked by rose v 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It happens because some people see children as just a problem for them and if they can get money and be able to take their anger out on something helpless than some sick people will do that. Maybe god wanted you to nurture and guide other peoples children. Be patient and eventually you'll see gods plan for you not having kids.
2006-11-06 12:08:46 · answer #1 · answered by Mark and Allie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry. It's completely unfair that a kind and good person unable to have their own child must pay thousands of dollars just to (and I don't like putting it this way at all) pay for one, but pretty much almost any old person, regardless of how cruel or inconsiderate they made be, can give birth to one. Perhaps you could ask an attourney if there was a loophole of some sort, where you could pay less to adopt a child, or perhaps foster one. I am sure things will start to look up. I'll pray for you. God bless.
2006-11-06 12:10:35 · answer #2 · answered by Strange Design 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because to many babys are having babys , and there to scared to either tell there parents or take care of it themselves. Even though adoption is avaiable they would have to carry it and ruin or think they were ruining there lives. It's sad, and it hurts to think that these babys don't get the chance to have lives.I have 3 children, and i can't for the life of me see how throwing a baby away like trash makes things any better. I always wanted to be a surragate mom but theres to many people out there who you can't trust to keep the babys safe and healthy. I plan to get my tubes tied to make sure i have no more kids, which is what they should do to the young girls to make sure they never have any more kids. If your gonna throw your first born away like trash then they should not be allowed to have any more. PERIOD.
2006-11-06 12:21:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not become a foster parent then? There has to be more to this than what you say. Try going thru your church. Give you love in a voluntary way.
2006-11-06 12:14:11 · answer #4 · answered by believer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people just can't take the responsibilites of raising kids. They don't understand the consequences of sex. It's a shame. People just act like fools.
2006-11-06 12:12:35 · answer #5 · answered by bassmaim 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People aren't willing to speak up and say "Hey, I didn't want this in my life but I am scarred to tell anybody that because they might think less of me."
No one is willing to admit they screwed up.
Foster parents that abuse there kids just want to money for nothing. They don't want to work for it.
I don't mean to be rude it is just what I think.
2006-11-06 12:37:55 · answer #6 · answered by Princess 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋