I'm an *** because my wife and I got into an argument last night about something so stupid that i don't even remember how it started.But I took it way too far and disrespected her and her mom and dad.I 've only talked to them a couple of times within the last 7 years because they live in Mexico,but i completely hurt her feelings.I screwed up and I don't know what to do?She is talking to me,but I can tell that she's hurt.
2006-11-06 11:55:06 · 7 answers · asked by charles 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
WOW! Good for you that you admitted this-that says alot about you. I know how you feel and i have been in her place before-the best thing you can do is show her that you are sorry and that what you said to her was something said in anger and SHOW her that you do respect her and that you love her--SHOW interest in what she wants and likes--be patient with her because she does need time to get over this--i know it took me a long time to get over my feelings after the first argument my husband and i had-so give her time and show her that you know you screwed up! Give her the things she likes but do NOT try to buy her back with gifts--show her that you care and love her above anything else--even your pride! Sacrifice a your favorite things and do the things she likes to do--she will see that and your actions will help her get over her hurt--you are married and time will heal things and help the both of you become stronger--you will see that just because you show her you care and give in on somethings you wont become less of a man--on the contrary she will respect you and love you more for that--believe me i have been there--and i am in love with my husband way more now than i was when we were "novios de manitas sudadas" GOOD LUCK and be strong!
2006-11-06 12:15:51 · answer #1 · answered by Allie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just apologize and tell her you didn't mean what you said. Don't worry about it, when people argue they tend to say some pretty hurtful things because they're angry at the time. The truth of the matter is that since it WAS about her family, it may have cut deep. She may need a little time to heal from this, let her cool off a bit, and try not to bring her family into it again.
2006-11-06 20:01:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her your sorry and maybe surprise her with a gift to show that you really mean it. Tell her you know that you were wrong and that you can't take back what was said but you can try to do better in the future.
2006-11-06 20:02:40 · answer #3 · answered by Mark and Allie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Swallow any pride you may have and get down on your hands and knees to beg her forgiveness. If you hurt her as much as you say, this may be the only way to get her to forgive you.
2006-11-06 19:59:07 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at least u have a conscience and it takes a man to realise their mistake and apologise so b your most charming and apologise sincerely then show her u r sorry actions speak louder than words
2006-11-06 20:04:25 · answer #5 · answered by sarah71397 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize sincerely. And don't do it again. Kudos for admitting you were wrong.
2006-11-06 19:57:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just straight up tell her your sorry and go from their
2006-11-06 19:59:08 · answer #7 · answered by Wisdom=Magenta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋