I am a nice person but i just don't get it.
2006-11-06 11:50:08 · 19 answers · asked by Shaq P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
1st of all make sure your breath is straight, nothing can end a conversation faster than tart breath...then get off the computer and get out more.
2006-11-06 11:55:10 · answer #1 · answered by Hi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's often a matter of confidence. This question indicates you're spending a lot of time worrying about what others think of you, and that usually hampers your ability to make friends. Just talk to people, and don't worry too much about what they think. For instance, I'm talking to you now. You could give me 'best answer' or e-mail me on the subject (it's nice when people acknowledge you like that), but it's okay if you don't. People respond to you better when they don't feel like you need them to.
2006-11-06 11:59:36 · answer #2 · answered by The Mad Shillelagh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does anyone else know you are a nice person or are you keeping it a secret. Do you do kind things for people? Speak to people, open doors for ladies, say excuse me when you burp or pass gas. Do you dress funny?
2006-11-06 11:56:38 · answer #3 · answered by Chuck C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes i wonder if my friends are really my friends. and there are some days that i dont have friends either., dont worry sweetie your not alone, go out and meet some people be friendly and nice and not so shy. and choose your friends wisely because some of them can bring you down and do bad things. you probably do have friends you just dont keep in touch with them. and always remember your FAMILY is your TRUE FRIENDS. they will always be there for you.
2006-11-06 11:53:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a nice person does not make you a social person that takes practice and social people usually have more friends than nice people who don't socialize. good luck and enjoy
2006-11-06 11:53:45 · answer #5 · answered by john_borst2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you partiicipate in activities where you might meet people with like interests, or are you available to be a friend in return, have you any past mistakes or reputation still looming over you.....just reflect on how you present yourself, try talking one on one, and work up to group settings...
2006-11-06 12:01:55 · answer #6 · answered by phyllis_neel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is easy to find someone to hang-out with but it is very difficult to find a true friend. The most you are going to find, is people that want to use you. Remember that.
2006-11-06 12:00:01 · answer #7 · answered by George S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're shy. Try talking to and smiling at more people.
2006-11-06 11:52:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may not have a lot in common with other people
2006-11-06 11:51:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe its just ppl they can be so crue ill be ur friend
2006-11-06 13:05:18 · answer #10 · answered by donielle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋