Has anyone heard of sexual aversion? How do I know if my boyfriend has this and how do I get him to talk about it. Anytime I bring up the subject of sex at all he gets very defensive. How do I get help for this if he refuses to admit that he might have a problem??
Anyone who can PLEASE help???
Thank you!
2006-11-06 11:27:57 · 15 answers · asked by hunnyimissu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its called sexual Aversion Disorder and it is real. Pressuring him will only make things worse as this problem comes from a bad experience from his child hood. please go to allpsychonline.com to see what I mean. good luck and enjoy
2006-11-06 11:39:01 · answer #1 · answered by john_borst2000 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To start with what was your feelings about sex before you got married, back when y'all were dating? If y'all were sexually active then without any problems then it seems to be connected with the fact that your married because you said you didn't think you would have a problem with sex with someone outside of your marriage. If there was no problem before marriage then I would suggest the every now and then y'all go on a date. Dress up, let him take you out to a nice restaurant where you don't even bring up the subject of sex and then after dinner go to a motel where you'll spend the night having sex as if you weren't married but fooling around. You said you won't take medicine but you loved your husband and didn't want to divorce. From what I understand there is products out there that work like viagra for women so if you really want to make your marriage work then you should be willing to try it or are you just BSing about wanting your marriage to work.
2016-05-22 05:30:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you do not take this the wrong way. I don't mean to be a a-s-s but maybe he is not attracted to you that way. Maybe he just sees you as a friend. It's possible that he is not the 1 with the problem. Are you sure you are not missing the boat on this? Find out for sure how he feels about you. Tell him you need to know' that this is hurting you. You feel like you are spinning your wheels for nothing. You need to know witch way this relationship is going. 1 other thing' Are you sure he hasn't been abused some kind of way before you knew him?
2006-11-06 11:48:33 · answer #3 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he not interested in sex? Does he hate sex? Does he refuse to have sex? Why do you even bring up a subject of sex, and in which way? More info is needed. There are some people who are not very interested in sex due to health factors. Or, he or you or both may just be poor communicators.
2006-11-06 11:32:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-06 11:34:25 · answer #5 · answered by Lou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has a sexual problem or he cheats just wate till he wants to talk about it or if it gets to serois jst tell him to talk or u guys are throo
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2006-11-06 11:31:13 · answer #6 · answered by WorldOfWarcraftGamerandLover 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he's scared, usually its the girl. Oh well, just give him time he's not ready.
2006-11-06 11:30:38 · answer #7 · answered by lms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you guys had sex? could he be a virgin? maybe his last g/f made him feel insecure... you need to talk to him about it..he is the only one who really knows.
2006-11-06 11:30:12 · answer #8 · answered by shasta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I still giggle when someone says the word penis...
It's called immaturity!
Embrace it!
2006-11-06 11:54:52 · answer #9 · answered by mrspatpat79 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmh, he could be a gay.....
Kidding, hes prolly a virgin, or something simple, he will give in eventually.
-James
2006-11-06 11:32:21 · answer #10 · answered by jameswilliamlong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋