how do i make more friends?
i dont even have 5 friends on my 360!
im so stupid!
2006-11-06 11:04:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i wish i could choose all of you as best answers!
2006-11-06 11:15:04 · update #1
Being down on yourself won't help, and neither will counting your friends. Figure out who you are, and start liking that person - it'll show, and people will gravitate toward you.
2006-11-06 11:07:23 · answer #1 · answered by The Mad Shillelagh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, last year, i went to a private school where i just didnt fit in. so i switched over to public school. at frist i was very shy and didnt have a lot of friends. later on...about two weeks later, i started asking people questions and i opened myself up. at first i thought poeple would think i was annoying and not like me..but now, i have more friends than ever and im actually kinda popular. so..my point is, open yourself up, leave your other friends for five minutes at lunch..that is if you are still in school and hang around other people for a while, you'll find that you have more friends!!! Good luck!!!
2006-11-06 19:13:18 · answer #2 · answered by megan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK. Lets talk about this...
1) Do NOT think you're stupid. You are NOT stupid. If you believe you're stupid, others will think so too.
2) Try to open up. Even if it's just smiling at people. That will let others know you are intrested in trying to meet people.
3) Also try to talk, even if you're just asking simple questions. This will help them open up to you, and then you'll feel comfortable with them, making you more open.
2006-11-06 19:13:46 · answer #3 · answered by Christine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to gain some self love as well as self esteem. Do you have family?? Cousins?? start off with them first and then maybe go out with them and make some friends. If you are in school try to communicate with atleast one person say in the caf, we aren't talking to make 20 friends in one day, but if you start off with one person, that is good, and then it branches out from there. don't worry about having 5 friends, when you have friends you don't sit and say okay i have 5 how can i get another 5, you have to look at the person who is being your friend. You have alot of work to do to get yourself in order first before thinking you want to make a world of friends. just being HONEST
2006-11-06 19:11:03 · answer #4 · answered by Nattiedred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you are not "so stupid." You need a lesson in finding yourself and being yourself. People like good qualities in people, and are attracted to them because of the qualities they express. So, do good things and be your self and you will attract good friends. Relax. Further, it is never the number of friends that has meaning, it is the quality of the friendship that is substance.
2006-11-06 19:12:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be more sure of yourself. I looked at your 360 and if that's you then your self confidence is your only problem. Just go be yourself and talk to people you will do fine. Open up a little to people.
2006-11-06 19:12:36 · answer #6 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad! You're not stupid! You just need to try to come out of your shell more! Don't be so concerned what other people think, just get out there & have fun!
Try going up to someone who seems really outgoing, make friends with them, & soon enough it will rub off on you!
2006-11-06 19:09:07 · answer #7 · answered by It's just me! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you lack self confidence. Do some reading on the internet about self-esteem. There are a lot of great articles out there to help you.
2006-11-06 19:07:28 · answer #8 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to join some clubs at school. Thats usually a good way to make friends
2006-11-06 19:10:03 · answer #9 · answered by Wisdom=Magenta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK I DONT HAVE MANY FRIENDS EITHER IM SHY I TALK TO LOTS OF PPL ON THE COMPUTER MAYBE IF U DID THAT U COULD GET MORE YAHOO 360 FRIENDS
2006-11-06 21:30:25 · answer #10 · answered by donielle 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋