I know people are never satisfied..its just human to be like that. But I wonder why girls who get SO many compliments all the time about their looks still are always wishing they could look like that other girl. I get compliments all the time on my looks, yet I still have times where I feel like I look like crap. Its almost like we only believe the bad things about ourselves. Why is that?
2006-11-06 11:02:54 · 7 answers · asked by timcurrysfan 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
The first answer is how I feel..What you have to realize is all the beautiful hollywood stars have people to do thier hair, makeup, dress ect..We don't, so when you look in the mirror and know you look good, remember you did it all yourself and didn't have 20 people making you look good..Also, plastic surgery works miricles, also too much money..You are you and NO ONE can ever take that away from you :D
2006-11-06 11:13:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me personally, I was verbally abused by my siblings my entire life, so no matter how many compliments I get, I still remember the mean stuff. I was offered a modeling contract when I was 24 and turned it down because I was so afraid of being picked apart like I was as a kid. That's pretty damn scarred. At 35, I still get lots of compliments and attention but now I think I look old. People are always really surprised when they learn my age. They think I am in my 20's. I am convinced that I look like I am 45.
I still am really happy and in fact, prefer weird looking people over traditionally beautiful. It's just that I never saw myself as attractive because of all of the faults that my siblings drove home every single day of my life. In short, it's low self esteem.
My husband and daughter are the only two people that I know think I am beautiful.
2006-11-06 11:22:01 · answer #2 · answered by -- 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hormonal crap that's all and how u were raised by a woman whom either picked herself apart in front of u when u were a kid.
If you had mom that was on a diet everyday of your childhood life or she never felt good about herself that low self esteem issue will creep up in your life. Sometimes i hate how i look and wish i could pull my face off and put a better looking face that is clear and not like the one i have a ugly African American face with brown spots like a chocolate chip cookie.. But i have this acne scarring issue due to my mother she has bad skin so i have bad skin and i hate it and yes i am miserable and none of the acne crap out there over the counter or prescribed works. I have a husband but sometime i feel that he could do much better. Yes i have a great Christian heart and spoil my him rotten but when i am looking in the mirror i see a ugly face.. he and friends and relatives say I'm beautiful but me eyes see yuck.. It is depressing
2006-11-06 11:14:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm like that too. When someone compliments something I just find a flaw in something else. I have NO CLUE why I do that but I do. Guess it's just what we women do
2006-11-06 11:12:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its society and media and how they say u have to be perfect. don worry about it. yes, im not gonna lie and say looks dont count cuz they do, but if u believe inside u are beautiful than it will come through, girls only see their imperfections but they dont know that that's what makes them beautiful
2006-11-06 11:06:36 · answer #5 · answered by dramateen23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats every girl! every one wants to be like some one! its just girl!
2006-11-06 11:06:40 · answer #6 · answered by randaroo87 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know but i know how u feel...
2006-11-06 15:17:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋