of which are gay. This poses no problem to me, as I do not see them for what sex they prefer, but for who they are as a person. But this is my problem.......I recently began dating a guy who seams to be wonderful in every aspect expect for the fact that he does care for me having all these gay friends...Whats his problem. my friends won't hit on him, the know he's straight and w/ me.
2006-11-06 10:59:33 · 12 answers · asked by Mommy Dearest 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Guys will always be jealous of guy friends, doesn't matter if they're gay, straight, bi -whatever. The threat isn't so much that they would hit on him, as it is that they would hit on you.
I know they're gay, would never hit on you, but you gotta think like a guy -anything walking around with a (male member) is considered a threat.
2006-11-06 11:27:37 · answer #1 · answered by daisyk 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1. Do not mix their company, he's not comfortable around them so let him be him. Just as you let your other friends be who they are.
2. Beware, it's not uncommon for someone you consider a "freind" to hit on the person you are dating, No matter what the gender is. So do not let your guards down.
3. Find and make sure that the "greater majority" of your "friends" exhibit the type of lifestyle you'd like to lead.
I know this (#3) may sound silly but it's a wise choice. HE may be put off by the "#" of gay friends you have. Though you may not be "so inclined", it may not reflect well on the type of lifesyle or environments you prefer.
2006-11-06 19:20:42 · answer #2 · answered by yorlooksmybiz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably has latent homosexual tendencies. Subconsciously, he's very likely attracted to men. Although he's not even remotely aware of this, (except for odd feelings he occasionally has to reject late at night) it overtly manifests itself as subdued discomfort, and a thinly veiled hostility regarding your friends. Often, repressed anger in a person, which is a result of deep rooted fear and confusion regarding their own sexuality, is vocalized in criticism of the very object of their desire. Be careful of this guy, especially if he's a republican and involved with the church someway. Basically, his superego is in conflict with his id.
2006-11-06 19:33:30 · answer #3 · answered by Kim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would always chose my friends over some stupid guy! If he has a problem (i don't know why he would) He should just deal with it!!!!!
On the other hand he is you boyfriend & you should talk to him about it!
OOOO & I really do think that other chick was high!
2006-11-06 19:06:25 · answer #4 · answered by It's just me! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time ..patience and personal experience will teach him ..his fears are unfounded ...I too have gay friends and have experienced this ...it is a male instinct to defend his girl ...and only when they get to know the gay friend will that fear disappear ...I had friends who did not believe my friend was gay ..believe me he is
it is not about them hitting on him ...it is more are they really gay ?
2006-11-06 19:20:56 · answer #5 · answered by pineforestkim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*Maybe he feels that he won't be comfortable being around other males that are gay.Or maybe he personally dosn't know any gay men.Or who knows-he may be just jealous.Just take a stand and keep your old friends and hopefully new guy will come around.Good Luck*
2006-11-06 19:09:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your new man,should get over it.Just tell him that these gay men where you friends before you meet him.Friends are forever ,so don't give them up
2006-11-06 19:47:35 · answer #7 · answered by irishcashgal 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bros before hoes. Or in your case, bros before boyfriends. Friends are more important than boyfriends. In my opinion.
2006-11-06 19:06:10 · answer #8 · answered by incubus71089 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he should accept you for who you are and whom your friends are....and get it straight to him...before he tries to change things you enjoy being around....good luck.
2006-11-06 19:03:10 · answer #9 · answered by *NANCY* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW
gay men are tupidoss and juss leav em alone
there
and
love
for
tiny
binder
LALALALALAALALA
no im not high
SCREWW A DEAD GOOSE
2006-11-06 19:02:57 · answer #10 · answered by vanilla_mafia 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋