what can i do so my life go back to what i used to be..
before i had the baby i used to go out and stuff i would play at the park soccer and sports
2006-11-06 10:50:52 · 16 answers · asked by Glenda P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Our lives change when babies arrive...you need to get out with your friends once a week at least. Or get to the stores by yourself just to shop for nothing, or get your hair done...you just need a little break just to be yourself again. We all need that.
2006-11-06 10:56:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, time being a mom uh. Of coarse you are going to feel stressed out, a new baby is a lot of work. Plus you are not getting the sleep that you need. First make sure your baby is on a schedule, that is the best advice I can give you. As for the whole sex thing, it will take some time trust me after having a baby you don't ever feel like having sex anymore it kinda sucks don't it. You will again trust me, pombaly not till after your baby is one or so though. First though you have to calm down. When baby sleeps do something just for you like a warm bath to calm you down, or have your boyfriend do something special for you that could put you in the mood too. Well Good Luck
2006-11-06 10:56:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have discovered what all girls need to know before they have sex. Sex is fun right. Kind of like having a guy like you.
But for some....like yourself...that fun leads to a baby. You are not old enough to have a baby as you are not that far away from being one.
Have you ever heard the term.....you made your bed now you must lie in it. You now have a responsibility to that child you brought into this world. It must always come first.
It is just the way life is.
2006-11-06 10:57:31 · answer #3 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it maybe an issue of your self image? of course women do gain some weight, no offense, during pregnancy and i wonder if your lack of enthusiasm may be a result of you not looking as "hot" as you did before. relax, take some time for yourself to help you feel good. also, you still have some extra hormones going on i'm sure so realize that you may have to just wait for some of that to wear off, not to be a typical guy or anything. i'd say find a baby sitter and go out with your favorite group of people for a night and enjoy things knowing that you don't have to worry about the baby.
2006-11-06 10:55:01 · answer #4 · answered by adman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your life will never be the way it used to be. A baby changes your life. You might still have post-partum depression, you might not be getting enough sleep and you might just need a few hours away from the baby.
2006-11-06 10:53:56 · answer #5 · answered by shermynewstart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a baby takes a lot of work...It takes your body to get back to normal...also if you're taking any kind of birth control that can lead to you being so stressed...some contraceptives make your hormones go crazy ....I had to learn that the hard way...but just hand in there...it's normal with your new baby....You'll get used to it...
2006-11-06 10:54:52 · answer #6 · answered by YourGSpot.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'M SURE YOU'VE HEARD IT ALREADY BUT HORMONES ARE UP/DOWN FOR SOMETIME AFTER A BABY. GET HELP WITH HOUSEWORK, COOKING, ETC. PUT ON A LITTLE MAKE-UP, IT DOES HELP. get A SITTER, EVEN IF IT'S JUST FOR AN HOUR . SPEND QUIET TIME WITH YOUR SPOUSE, TALK OPENLY ABOUT WHAT IS ON YOUR MIND, TRY TO BE TACTFUL. JOURNAL HELPS ALSO. GET A CHECKUP, TALK TO YOUR DOCTOR, YOU MAY HAVE POSTPARTUM DEPRESSION OR THE LIKE.
2006-11-06 10:56:46 · answer #7 · answered by nanny4hap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you got a case of post pardon blues. Talk to your doctor. Everything you are experiencing is normal. Ask your doc about putting you on Welbutrin. It seems to be working wonders for myself and most other women I know.
2006-11-06 10:54:22 · answer #8 · answered by nadia s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're exhuasted because you have a newborn. You can start small- take the baby in the stroller and go for a short walk.
2006-11-06 10:52:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are depressed thats all...it is very normal, and when the baby gets older, you will enjoy it, and life more. I went through that 3 times, then got my tubes tied LOL... but it will get better, and the sex too!!!
2006-11-06 10:53:12 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Sweet Girl♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋