stepmom is very demanding and ignorant to me and my dad and i use to be close til recently because of my mom and i arguing so much she tries to control me and im 25. She tells me im not mature enough to be married yet and my fiance and i have been together for 4 years. how do i get approval from them and prove that i am mature??
2006-11-06 10:43:16 · 12 answers · asked by christinemw81 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You just have to stand up for what you believe in.
Im 34, and mine still do it to me!
Im about to become divorced, and when my marriage was falling apart, my parents suggested that, we stay together and live in seperate rooms, so I didnt embarress the family etc etc................in the end when I decided to leave they were fully supportive.
Your old enough to make your own decisions, just make them and stick to them, and hold your head up high!
2006-11-06 10:53:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 11:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since when do you have to PROVE yourself mature enough at the age of 25? If your family doesnt accept it or give their approval but you are determined to marry then marry without their approval. My God you are 25 years old.
2006-11-06 10:51:12 · answer #3 · answered by classy&sassy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you in thier house? The first step is to move out and show that you can support yourself with out asking things of daddy. Once you do this then They will start to look at you as an adult. Then again pa still calls anyone my age a boy or girl. but has respect for thoe that can do things on thier own.
2006-11-06 10:48:28 · answer #4 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what I did...
Stand up for yourself.
Move out.
Marry the guy your parents can't stand.
Maintain a job and pay your bills.
Prove you can stand on your own AND make wise decisions.
There really is no other way.
2006-11-06 11:10:36 · answer #5 · answered by mrspatpat79 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ya ya you obviously you do not live on your own. I have a good idea. Move out. If she is always on you, maybe it is because she sees things about you that you do not see. Ever give her respect? Do you talk back to her, and act like you know everything, and you think that she is a person that knows nothing? Think of what she is trying to do for you, so you do not screw up.
2006-11-06 10:57:24 · answer #6 · answered by get the facts right 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rule number one. you're parents will never approve of the guy you're dating and or plan on marrying. They want to stop you from making a "mistake" however, its your mistake to make. Tell them you love them, will always love them, but its your life. its yours to do with as you feel. My folks and I have gone through stages like this, but now, we're closer than ever. You need to tell your parents that you're not a little girl anymore. its all about growing up.
2006-11-06 10:48:18 · answer #7 · answered by Joyce K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are old enough, so get on with your life. Without losing respect for them, let what they say go over your head. They are bitter because of their own childhood and they envy you and the future you have ahead of you.
2006-11-06 11:11:34 · answer #8 · answered by jammer 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are old enough to decide for your own. your an adult and you don't have to listen to everything your parents tell you. they have no right to tell you you can't get married. do what your heart tells you. and it's not like if you break your parents rules, they're gonna ground you
2006-11-06 10:47:39 · answer #9 · answered by Charlene 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just do it and prove it by being mature enough to have a successful marraige (only if you are!)
2006-11-06 10:46:13 · answer #10 · answered by dgm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋