I am in college, behind in college, failing school, feel used, feel unliked, depressed..please
2006-11-06 10:38:15 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Okay... What's Grey?......... a melted penguin!!!! (did that help?)
That's my favourite joke, but it's not for everyone.
Let's see.... I have flunked out of university. In the process of doing so I made the attempt to show up at a second level calculus exam. I was overtired and pale (all nighter for an exam earlier that morning), so my friend gave me a shot of Jack Daniel's to put some colour in my face.
It did. Unfortunately the colour was green. I puked on my prof's shoes.
I've had many times when I've felt like you are now. And wanna know what? Once I figured out what I WANTED, things got a whole lot easier.
My guess is that you feel trapped. Ask yourself what you really want, and you'll begin to feel lighter. You are not the first to fail, nor will you be the last. Maybe you need to join the ranks of all the rest of us who've failed and lived to find success on terms we want to live with. You CAN figure this out.
But you wanted cheer, not a life story, so here's another attempt at humour:
Why did the blonde have a bruised belly-button?..... blond boyfriend.
Best Wishes... find someone to vent to... you'll feel better. Misery loves a good audience. - Andrea
2006-11-06 11:03:09 · answer #1 · answered by Mikisew 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay home for a while, go to bed early, and study and get caught up in school.
Hang out with people who make you feel good about yourself- if that is nobody right now, then avoid people and just have some alone time. Watch some comedies.
We all have phases like this where everything is overwhelming and people suck, but it always gets better in time.
Good luck! :0)
2006-11-06 18:51:57 · answer #2 · answered by mynickname 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One day at a time.
You are smart.
You must focus.
You can't be used if you don't allow it.
If you are focusing on the light at the end of the tunnel (graduation) you won't even notice who likes you and who doesn't. Who cares what the losers like or don't like!
Too much alcohol ?
Straighten UP!!
College is a stepping stone.
You are treating it like a rock tied around your neck instead of a stepping stone!
Think of what you will be doing in twenty years. You will look back and wish you had made better use of your time. Now is the time to do what you need to do!
Enjoy studying. Enjoy college. Enjoy life.
Good luck to you!
2006-11-06 18:47:44 · answer #3 · answered by NANCY K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I cant cheer you up but you can make the decision to feel better,there are some very kind people here to take the time and care about your well being ,so you are not alone
2006-11-06 18:52:54 · answer #4 · answered by Sheila B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey m8
When your feeling down everything seems worse than it is.
I think you may be a bit run down so try and get lots of sleep so you have a bit more energy.
I guarantee you you will soon start to feel better and things like your coursework will come more easily to you.
As for people not liking you its all down to you feeling like ****,people respond to you in the manner you talk to them so if your low and depressed its likely they will act that way with you too.
To get over that try and be friendly and smile and you'll be surprised how much more people will enjoy your company.
Anyway best of luck old bean
Chancer:)
2006-11-06 18:43:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
first you are failing school, talk to your counselor to see if you can get some help with the work load or maybe an easier load,--next you are feeling used , do some things to make yourself feel appreciated, who ever is making you feel used ,go off on them let them know you are not a door mat you deserve better, next do something for you to make you like your self better, or invite a friend out that you like, that appreciates you for being you. next thing you know you will start to see that things are better for you. think of someone in your life that listens to you and gives sound advice, maybe someone you know, that you can confide in , if you don't know any one get out and make some friends. don't worry be happy now !
2006-11-06 18:51:09 · answer #6 · answered by cvgm702 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its okay sometimes i fall behind and sometimes i fill the same way, but you think on it and then you get over it . if it is making you feel this bad then maybe you should plan to fix the problem that is making your feel down. you might feel unliked but you are liked in my book. so when you need my type to me
2006-11-06 18:50:15 · answer #7 · answered by asinqueen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is college something you really want to do, or are your parents forcing you to do it?
You could take sometime off and volunteer somewhere. If not, you could get a job.
In the meantime, try to find something you enjoy, someone to talk to. It WILL pass, in time.
2006-11-06 18:55:22 · answer #8 · answered by almostdead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That suck, but actually to tell the truth, i have sort of bad grades i have always a bad grade in algebra, i hate math and its hard to me plus the teacher ..ugh i hate her.. along w/ all my other subjects that i really dont like and my advance reading class..(wich has no purpose because thats why we have english class in the 1st place..!!!) i also hate and the teacher is really anoying. plus i have 7 classes a day!!! SEVEN! and i have to get up at 5:30 AM.
2006-11-06 18:48:34 · answer #9 · answered by blahhblahhhblahahh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't give up. This is just a temporary phase in your life, and you are not alone. It may be a good idea to talk with you counselor, I think you will find that talking it out, can be quite helpful. Things will get better.
2006-11-06 19:22:28 · answer #10 · answered by nicky 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋