2006-11-06 10:34:08 · 13 answers · asked by christinemw81 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your legally an adult...at 25 the apron strings should have been cut long ago.
Be an adult, make an adult decision without running to mommy and daddy.
2006-11-06 10:36:52 · answer #1 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you are 25 and you are old enough to handle the decision on your own. They may come around, maybe, but you also have to be prepared on how to deal with situations if they never approve of him for many years. Talk to a girlfriend about what your folks say, does your friend side with your parents - if so, then maybe your parents have got some legitimate issues. If he truly is a great guy that makes you happy, treats you well and respects you then that should be enough for you.
2006-11-06 10:38:34 · answer #2 · answered by GirlUdontKnow 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
greater suitable than if she replaced right into a teenager or pregnant... actual, it would count on the guy. i like my daughters and in the event that they're responsible and choose responsible companions, I`d in all probability be wonderful with it. 2 years isn`t an prolonged time, consistent with say, yet my sis and her husband (who've been married 21 yrs now) basically dated 2 years until eventually now getting married so it may artwork out. yet while the guy is outstanding, responsible, and sturdy to my daughter, I`d be wonderful with it, i think of.
2016-10-15 11:13:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 years! set a date already! ask you parents what is is they see in your fiance, what they are concerned about. Doing it constructively... dont make an arguement out of it. then you can tell them what you see in your man and also see from thier perscpective what they see. Love is blind, and sometimes you cant see the forest for all the trees. this will give you a chance to step back and look at the big picture, see how other people view the situation.
good luck
2006-11-06 10:40:32 · answer #4 · answered by grapelady911 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend that told me that her parents disapprove of her relationship,so they hurry up and got married at 16. She wish that she didn't do it so young.She never dated anyone else,and been with the same man for 30 years. she said ,that because of her parents being like that,push her more closer to the guy they didn't like. You do only whats in your heart. If your parents dislike your boyfriend, they are over protecting you. Let your parents know that they will push you away,if they don't stop. Tell them to please trust you.
2006-11-06 10:51:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well they are not going to marry him!
As long as you feel he is the Right guy...? What can I say.
Parents may know something they may wish to shead light on....so ask them once again/...'WHAT' is it!!!
And if the answer is just not Good enough, marry him....Your not a kid, your 25...and by now you should know if he is good value.
2006-11-06 10:41:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely do some deep checking into this guy and see if your parents are worrying for a reason, cause you know they love you and just don't wantyou to get hurt. Judy
2006-11-06 10:40:35 · answer #7 · answered by jpearlpeek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him and he's the one for you then marry him anyway...What matters is that you're happy...In the end, it's you that has to live your life w/ your man, not your parents....Plus, you can't live your life for your parents...Stand up for yourself....They'll come around...
2006-11-06 10:37:05 · answer #8 · answered by JennyAnn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what your parent think. If he is the one you want to be with then do it. Your 25 yrs old you can do and say as you please! THEY WILL GET OVER IT : )
2006-11-06 10:38:36 · answer #9 · answered by ღ|l°Coltrane°l|ღ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They might know something that you don't. Take a good look at him and decide what is best for you.
2006-11-06 10:36:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋