If you read my other question about my friend, then you'll know what this is about. So I just IMed my friend about it. I asked if she knew if the guy had slept with someone else, if HIS parents knew, if he's going to wear a condom, etc. She said he doesnt even know how to put a condom on. I'm sorry but I just felt like crying then. I know its her choice, but she got all mad and said "I can do what I want. My parents wont know, his parents wont know, and you better not tell anyone. I'm ready and I;m going to do this!" I want to call her house to talk to her Mom or Dad, but she normally picks up the phone, so I dont know what to do!
2006-11-06 10:18:44 · 6 answers · asked by blueeyedsweetpea11 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
If that's what she's determined to do, you can't stop her. What you CAN do, is to act as her friend. Tell her, that in your mind, it's not a wise choice, but respect that the choice is hers.
If she doesn't know anything about contraceptives, try educating her; tell her about condoms, how to use them, and the importance of always using them. Perhaps you could buy a packet of condoms together and practice putting them on a cucumber.
She might be making a bad choice, but help her make sure, it's not a catastrophic one.
Besides, when you are insisting on talking her out of it, you might just be making her more set on going through with it. By accepting her decision you'll also give her the opportunity to back out of the whole thing without losing face to you.
Best wishes!
2006-11-06 10:34:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sweetheart, your heart is in the right place but, I'm afraid the choice seems to be taken out of your hands unless you go directly to her house and see her mom, then it's all over for you, you know that, don't you?
If you feel like a marter, go ahead. Otherwise, I'm thinking.....If you tell her what you heard and how many people now know about it, maybe it'll change her mind. However, your going to lose your best friend. no matter what you do, your going to be the loser. Good luck sweetie and hang in there.
2006-11-06 10:29:31 · answer #2 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to think about what she is doing before she does anything i'm 19 and have a 2 yr old daughter if nothing else just tell her to make sure they use a condom her mind is made up
2006-11-06 10:25:51 · answer #3 · answered by aj56470 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gen one million:26 And God mentioned, Let us make guy in our photograph, after our likeness: and allow them to have dominion over the fish of the ocean, and over the chook of the air, and over the farm animals, and over the entire earth, and over each and every creeping factor that creepeth upon the earth. Gen two:7 And the LORD God shaped guy of the grime of the bottom, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of existence; and guy grew to be a dwelling soul. Genesis one million explains God mentioned allow US create guy in OUR photograph. Genesis two indicates how guy is produced from the grime (flesh) God breathed existence into him (spirit) and guy grew to be a dwelling soul (soul) God created guy above the animals greater than flesh which returns to grime however with an everlasting spirit. No God isn't human and men and women don't seem to be God. Through Christ a human will also be joined to a ultimate God..
2016-09-01 08:17:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun do whatever u can!! try goin ta her house, dont let her get preg. the chances are very high, if she do itll screw her up bad...:(
2006-11-06 10:23:56 · answer #5 · answered by Missy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur parents.
2006-11-06 10:37:28 · answer #6 · answered by 1 Hott Mami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋