I met this girl at my math class she is my friend now but I have feelings for her, "I like her".
My point is that I do not know how to tell her that I like her, I don't even know if she have a boyfriend or not. I get so nervous everytime we talk and really this has not happen to me before.
Please I need some advise
2006-11-06 09:48:50 · 19 answers · asked by noelbre 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just casually ask her if she'd like to go grab some coffee after class. Or if she'd like to go with you to the football game this weekend or to see a specific movie, or some other event. She's probably wondering why you haven't asked her out yet, so you may as well. The worst thing that can happen is that she says no, but it would be worse to never know, wouldn't it? And if she does say no, be sure to act normal around her afterwards. Don't let it get to you or at least don't let her see that it gets to you!
2006-11-06 09:52:55 · answer #1 · answered by Sharon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st go out and buy a flowers(notice the colors she wears most), chocolates, and a teddy bear or something, and a card.
2nd make sure u look good
be urself but BE CONFIDENT but not like a jerk...be sweet and nice...if you try and be confident, she will probably still be able to tell u´re really nervous, but might find it cute.
3rd. tell her that u have really enjoyed her as a friend and you really get along with her and she is so nice and easy and fun to talk with...and ask her out...
now, keep in mind--if she turns you down
a)if it is because she already has a boyfriend she will still keep in mind what you did and might even notice how unromantic her boyfriend is and leave him for you
b)other people will probably see what you do and find it so romantic and sweet and notice you...in case you like someone else later on
c)if it is because she doesn´t like you then everyone will feel sorry for you because you really went out of your way for her
hope this helps---but flowers, roses, card, compliments, and chocolates from a nice cute boy is a girls dream!
hope you succeed!
GOOD LUCK!!!:D:D
2006-11-06 09:57:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, simply be sufferer. It WILL occur ultimately. Would you as an alternative kiss a man you do not like in order that you'll be able to say that you've? OR might you as an alternative have probably the most excellent, magical kiss you would think, a couple of years from now? I have a pal who most effective bought her first kiss whilst she used to be twenty, and he or she does not remorse something! Trust me, you will have a lot of time, and also you most effective get one first kiss, so make it distinctive! If it is not that distinctive, it is not the top of the sector, however nonetheless.
2016-09-01 08:15:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know her some more first. Ask her what her favorite band, food, etc. is. She'll get the hint that you're into her..plus you'll find out even more about her.
After you two get to know each other more, ask her out. If successful, ask her out for a second date, and when you feel you're comfortable, tell her how you feel. Maybe things will go further, and after getting to know you, maybe she'll feel the same way. Who knows!
My boyfriend did that to me, and I didn't even know him. We've been together for a year and nine months now! Give it a try! You may be nervous but it's worth it.
2006-11-06 09:54:09 · answer #4 · answered by nkp225 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should
1.) ignor the shy feeling you recive and be the man about things, no woman likes a wimp ( no offence)
2.) talk to her about stuff like, what she likes or what music she is on to
3.) when every thing is good ask to meet up and if that gose well then aragne to go out some where together for dinna/ cinamar/ theme park lol not recomended the last one lol, but at some point like in convo ask who's the "lucky boy" is and if she says who( her bf ex dave) then continue the talk and be friends with her if she says theres no one then just be shocked and say
" why the hell are you single your such a nice person, thats a real suprise to me " then go from step 3,
MY ADVISE:
talk from the heart not from the brain
2006-11-06 10:17:36 · answer #5 · answered by Doc. Austen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow... umm... well no one can ever know for sure if you guys will even hit it off or not... but the best way would be (and i know dude's hate waiting, i'm sorry) to become like one of her best friends... try to always be happy and confident around her because she's already your friend and you are just letting your awesome personality show now... and when she see that you are comfortable talking to her then she'll be more comfortable talking to you and slowly but surely the topic of relationships might come up and who knows! but the bottom line is be patient, calm, sincere, and savor her as your friend, but also don't be afraid to let your unique personality show! smile, be happy! it'll make her want to be around you more, not to mention being happy is a real confidence booster! so dude, the hard part's over! just keep it up! : ) hope that helps!
2006-11-06 09:59:09 · answer #6 · answered by applepiegrl13 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should ask her out. Ask her to the movies and start a date from there. Talk to her. Ask her if she has a boyfriend. Don't be shy because being shy gets you nowhere.
2006-11-06 10:10:52 · answer #7 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eventualy you hav 2 tell her.but first find out if she has a boy friend then wait till the perfect time or if you cant wait ask her to talk away from her friends so you dont get imbarassed then ask her
2006-11-06 10:14:16 · answer #8 · answered by MR47 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could start out by gathering up some courage and asking her if she would like to go hang out sometime. you could do lunch, coffee, a study session, but do avoid asking to take her to dinner...you don't want to sound like you're really trying to hook it up. playing it cool is also very important. act interested but don't over do it. by taking her out you can find out if she has a boyfriend or if she's possibly interested in you.
2006-11-06 09:53:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok there is nothing wrong with girls. ok just to let you no, girls are complicated, or they make themselves look complicated when they are unsure about themselves. first you need to find out if she has a BF, and if not, start flirting, generally girls get the hint. (well quicker than guys do)
2006-11-06 09:53:06 · answer #10 · answered by sam 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋