My boyfriend's mother just recently found out we've been dating & she hates my guts! I have never met her & she has never met me. She works at the highschool I used to attend & she's heard rumors about me. These rumors include:1) I slept with 7 guys in one weekend, 2) I have chlamydia, 3) I dated a 40 year old man whom we both know; all of which are NOT TRUE. She is completely unreasonable & swears these rumors are all true. My boyfriend is completely torn because he doesn't want to break up but his mother is making his life a living hell! She tries to guilt him by telling him she's going to die because of him. She told him he's going to get sores on his ---- & that everyone thinks less of him now because he's with me & they think he has a disease. Would it be completely degrading to give her my medical records to prove her wrong atleast on 1 count, so she thinks about the rest? We are all adults, what can I do to make her more reasonable, atleast to listen to what we have to say?
2006-11-06 09:23:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think the best thing to do...go over and sit down with her and tell her how u feel.. And just let her know all of these things arent true.. Its just like when i was in school... u miss some days then they think u are prego or something.... but honestly be up front with her.. be bold about it... let her know what she is doing to u and her son... good luck to u
2006-11-06 09:29:14 · answer #1 · answered by blue eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out there and prove her wrong! You no in yourself that them rumours aint true, you dont need to prove anything to her. tell your boyfriend you want to meet her. then maybe in a way be a bit of a devil and suck up to her. if you go to her house compliment her on something in her house or if she has a hobby like if shes a crafty woman and you not at all interested in it act as tho you are, say stuff like wow this looks fantastic did you make this, tho's colours look nice together, what else have you made... etc etc she might just think wow what else have i made hang on 2 secs ill how you and go get stuff out of the cupboard and show you. make sure you look interested tho. alot of mother hate to meet there sons g'f because noone is good enough for him kind of thing. if you want your b'f that much you will go to any length to keep him.
2006-11-06 09:32:11 · answer #2 · answered by Brookeo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new boyfriend. You don't need this drama. She'll always treat you like crap, no matter how "sweet" her smile. The whole family sounds weird and this isn't who you're going to marry.
2006-11-06 09:26:41 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to stand up to her. If he can't do that then I would move on. This will be an example of how the rest of your life will be with him. If he can't stand up to her now he never will.
2006-11-06 09:34:07 · answer #4 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most moms do & will.......my mom hated every girl i ever met....so its just gonna take some time.........alot of time.......or just dont deal with her ..........when possible......lotsa luck!
2006-11-06 09:37:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋