What should i do?

Question

first of all, last year my bestfriend and i got into a fight over a boy! She was always kinda bossy and mean! She is the kinda friend who will ignore you for no reason! well she called me really mean names and we were fighting over the year on and off! This year she told me she wants to be friends again and I have been friends with this boy for awhile and we got really close and we started to go out! i mean he is one of my bestfriends and my boyfriend! Well so me and the girl have been friends & she hates my boyfriends and she tells me to break up with him all the time! all my other friends think i spend 2 much time w/ him & talk 2 him 2 much! But he is like One of my BESTFRIENDS! Okay today 4 no reason i have NO IDEA what i did my friends said "i don't think i can do this anymore! actually i no i can't! sometime i just wish i was on the other side" I'm guessing she doesn't want to be my friend anymore but pleaz help! Thanks!

well she was going out w/ him last year!

Answer 1

You could tell your friend you are going to kill yourself if you can't patch things up. That might not work. You might just try writing her off.

Answer 2

I think the only question you need to ask yourself is what do you lose if this person is no longer in your life.
I don't imagine it will be a long list.
It is never good to spend too much time with one person. It does not matter if it is your best friend or boyfriend. You become a more well rounded person with lots of people to share interests with and then when you are with that special person you have so much more to talk about and share.
Famous last words and I know it is hard to do but try to make plans with your female friends at least once a week ( on the weekend) so that you are not losing out on all life has to offer and not just the romance!

Answer 3

Well if it was just the one friend telling you to dump him I would understand not leaving him. If you have a lot of friends telling you to I would honestly take it into consideration. Nothing is worse than losing some of you closest friends over wanting to spend so much time with your boyfriend trust me you will only regret it. I would sit down with your friend and figure out what is going on dont just assume that she doesn't want to be your friend anymore. I would take into consideration how often you see your boyfriend and how often you see your friends was it the same as before you started dating him if not then I think your friends may be hurt by you lack of attempt to hang out and spend time with them.

Answer 4

Your friend is probably jealous of your boyfriend that you are spending more time with him than she is. I've been going through the same situation and my friend doesn't like it when I spend most of the time with my b/f and not her. I try my best to schedule time for my friend and b/f separately. The best thing to do is to have both of your friend and b/f to stay away from each other. Best of Luck ^____^

Answer 5

that happened to me a year ago .. i mean i dont know your boyfriend well or anything, but if all your friends are telling you that u shouldnt date him they might be right. you just have to take a second and think about your boyfriend: is he worth loosing all my friends, is he good to me, does he care about me. Even if you still decide you want to date him, dont hang out with him all the time, you always need a little girl time to hang out and just talk about boys and the newest gossip is always fun to talk about. Basically you need to think about if he is worth everything that hes putting you through because when i dated this boy that none of my friends liked, i thought he really cared about me and loved me and now that i think about it, he wasnt worth everything i went though, but just go with it everything will turn out ok.. well good luck ..

Answer 6

I think u do need to start spending more time with ur friends. NOT ur boyfriend. It sounds like u and ur friends r growing apart bc ur not hanging out w/ them anymore. If urbf has a problem w/ that, then dump him. It sounds like u and ur friends dont really know eacho ther anymore.

Answer 7

well if she is not going to be your friend over a boy then tell her that you dont need her dragging you along and bossing you around like a servant...if she really wants to be your friend then she should just get over the face that you found someone that you really like and she is just jealous....i am in the 8th grade and my friends tell me all the time(last year) to dump them and then 2 seconds later they are going out and it got me really mad!!!!so just tell her that and keep your boy friend

Answer 8

first you shouldn't be her friend in the first place. She is not your friend and you need to walk away with your boyfriend and move on. Let her talk. No one should hhave to put up with that. She will learn

Answer 9

ur both in da rong...come on .. no boi shud av come between u n ur m8 u woz m8z wiv er 1st so shi shudd b priority...well i noe where u r cumin 4rm bt if ur m8z fink u r spendin 2 mch tym wiv him jus fink bout spacin urself 2 av tym 4 friends n ur special boi anuva fing iz dat ur m8 doesnt seem dat nice if u reali lik diz boi shi shud support u no matta wot unless u r makin a huge mistak n it doesnt seem lik u r i fink shi iz a bit jealous but datz natural dont tak it bad...

Answer 10

sounds like she could be jealous of the relationship you have with your boyfriend. don't let her split you up, it is rather selfish that she can't be happy for you. Ditch the mate!!!!