Well, I am in shock. I tried to be nice to the cheating Ex wife and she turns around and bites me in the A_ _! I am trying a different approach in being nice to her than telling her and her new boyfriend to go F_ _K each other in a snake pit. I have offered to watch the kids while they go play suck face and hide the gerbel in the hidy hole! I have said nice nice words about her boyfriend and now she comes back and tells me that she has lots of bills and needs more child support money. This woman lives with her parents, who have inherited three quarters of a million dollars. She works as a nurse full time on the weekends and makes $26 dollars an hour and she works three days during the week at Hamilton College teaching nursing for $36 dollars an hour. I pay her $651 a month for two kids. Ever year she trades in her mini van for a new van and she just got one. Now, My question for you is.....How have you been bitten in the A_ _, after being nice to someone? Does it still hurt?
2006-11-06 09:16:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
B4 my husband and I got married he was still talking/writting (really sweet emails) to his ex who cheated on him....I found out accidentally...anyway....I wanted to leave...he started begging and crying....so I stayed...like an idiot and even married him....bad mistake...he still talks to a different ex, whom he sends money to...(my hard earned money)....I am about to divorce him...and he did that crying crap again...I told him to F... off! oh and he is in the military...wonder what they do during deployments???...well some of them anyway.
so yes it hurts...because I trusted him not to cheat on me....and we have 2 lil babies....anyway...they are better off without him....since he doesn't have time for them...I can conquer the world...I am smart and educated and can look after the well being of my babies....and he can go ahead and catch a STD..who cares...lol!!! All the best!
2006-11-06 09:22:37 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥♥GODDESS♥♥♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my experience you don't have allot of recourse legally. What she does with your child support money is between her and the kids. Nowhere in the law does it say it has to go directly to the kids, but to the kids support, which can be a new mini-van or even a boob job.
What you can do is look into how much she makes and if the ratios have changed between your income and hers at the time you were divorced than you can have the divorce papers ammended to lower your child support payments.
Other that that, quit being angry at her and move on with your life. She's moved on with hers.
2006-11-06 09:21:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should find a way to deal with all that anger! I suggest counseling. You do not have to give her more than the judge ordered you to give her. Try not to let your bad feelings get in the way of spending time with your kids, they will always need a Dad.
2006-11-06 09:21:50 · answer #3 · answered by shepherd 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
damn...i thought you were gonna reveal something about Jessica Simpson!
and only the memory of it hurts. you pay what the court ordered.if she wants more, she can take her greedy rear end and request a modification. and then she'll have to justify the need for an increase.
2006-11-06 09:36:07 · answer #4 · answered by Bella 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well Johnny, I cant say that I've been bitten but I'm sure it's gotta hurt. No matter what happens please keep putting those kids first. They only have what you give them.
2006-11-06 13:45:10 · answer #5 · answered by laedeb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its possiable lol and a it still hurts
2006-11-06 09:47:46 · answer #6 · answered by hooterzgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure i have been biten once or twice but not as deep as you! good luck , she sure sounds like a gold digger.
2006-11-06 09:19:07 · answer #7 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont not think this is johnny, I need more proof......
2006-11-06 09:18:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋