but i have known this other guy for about 3 yrs. and i really like him, but every time we get close he goes off and dates someone else. What do i do about my boyfriend of -7 months and this other guy? if anyone has any good advice i would be very grateful! Thanks - Jessie
2006-11-06 08:51:23 · 12 answers · asked by jlynn0390 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ur man dump him, the other dress up sexy and tell him u want him,
2006-11-06 08:53:13 · answer #1 · answered by susu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, for your boyfriend of seven months, all I can say is that you have a real issue there. Personally, I think you need to realize that you are not going to love the same person everyday. There are some days you wake up and go, "I don't like you or love you." It happens to everybody. The important thing to remember is that the one you are with now has decided to stay around for seven months. I have friends that would **** you and leave after maybe three weeks. The thing is that while you might not love him today, you could wake up tommorow and have a completely different outlook. Plus, you "don't THINK" you love him. This is not something that you really have the comfort of thinking about. It sounds like at one point, you loved him and you still do. If your question was "I DON'T LOVE HIM, WHAT SHOULD I DO?", then yeah, leave him. But if you are not sure like your question shows, then I would take that as a sign that you do.
This happens to guys, too. There are/were many times I would wake up and go "What the **** am I doing?" But then I would start to think about that person, and I would feel better. That is how you know that you love them. No matter what happens, thinking about them makes you smile.
As for the other guy, he sounds like he is hopping from relationship to relationship. That is just some high school bullshit right there. If these other girls could not make him stay, what chance do you have?
It is never about who you want right now, but who will always be there for you. And it sounds like the boyfriend will be there. I would stick it out with him.
Okay, this is the part where I make fun of you (I cannot help it):
"I really like him!" - things you say right before you take that third shot of Jack or right before your girlfriend confront you about him being an asshole.
Hope this helped and I really do hope that someone laughed at ^^^^^^^ that.
2006-11-06 09:35:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something that a lot of girls do, and it kind of helps. Imagine yourself spending the rest of your life with this guy. Can you? How does that make you feel? If you can't or you just don't see it in your future, then it is time to end it. You have realized this, and in order to move on with your life, and for him to move on with his, it is better to end it.
As far as the other guy, YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND, there is nothing holding him to you, therefore, he is free to get a girlfriend whenever he pleases.
You need to look deep inside yourself and see what you really feel. It is YOUR life, and you are the one living it, nobody else. Therefore you have to make all the decisions, and deal with all the decisions. Trust your instincts, and do what you feel is best.
Remember that love has no boundaries or time limits...you may fall in love at any given moment...
2006-11-06 08:58:18 · answer #3 · answered by Kate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're gonna have to take a good long look in the mirror. Do you respect yourself enough to be treated this way? Step off, girl. Move on. Leave these losers in the dust. There are a lot more fish in the sea and, trust me, you have definitely got the bait.
2006-11-06 08:56:02 · answer #4 · answered by Reo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to break it off with the boyfriend. Does the other guy run away because he knows you already have a boyfriend? Cause thats probably why he is dating other people. I agree with the other people who have answered... you'de no if you love him.
2006-11-06 08:56:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your current boyfriend go so that you don't keep leading him on. Tell the other guy how you feel & see where it goes from there. You might regret if you never say anything to him & miss out on something really great!
2006-11-06 08:54:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't think you love him, then you probably don't. It would be more fair to him if you stop seeing him. And as far as the one who wants to date other people, your wasting your own time. You need to get out meet some other guys and move on.
2006-11-06 08:55:57 · answer #7 · answered by Solo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first af all if you dont like the guy you're dating then dont be with him. if you like him butdont love him, then maybe you should let him know that. you never know if he might love you. and by staying with him and not saying anything you could end up hurting him in the end. as for the other guy... what makes you think that he's going to be with you or even wait??? if you're with someone thats it. you cant expect somone else to be "faithfull" to you. basically you need to go with the guy you like,and let the other one go. you cant have two guys.
2006-11-06 09:20:40 · answer #8 · answered by love me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are confused follow your heart.
2006-11-06 09:12:45 · answer #9 · answered by mocha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u loved him u would know
2006-11-06 08:52:48 · answer #10 · answered by crybaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋