i think I'm ugly????

Question

i dont understand,,when i was young around 9 years old and below, i think im handsome and cute,,,but as time goes by like high school years and college,, many people say that im ugly,, they always say evryday that they are already hurting me,,,i stop college because of that, i cant concentrate on my studies, i cant take the way they treat me, my heart is full of anger, i try to forget it,,,,but i cant, now i know why girls dont like me, i feel like its useless to live if you are alone, people always say that you haven't found yet mrs right,,but i dont believe that, im already in my mid 20"s and still alone,, i tried to court someone but she dumped me,,,its really really hurt,,i dont want to fall in love again,,maybe god dont really love me or maybe god dont exist,,,i dont feel there is justice on this earth,,,only the strong, handsome/beautifull, intelligent survive,,not like me,,this kind of era dont fit me..

Answer 1

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, if those around you do not find you appealing move on to someone who will.

Also, being deemed handsome by those around you will not guarantee you happiness or a mate either. Love yourself and someone else will eventually love you too.

Answer 2

OMG......I'm exactly like you,when I was a kid I though I was
I was goodlooking and cute but when I grow up (in high school and now college) I feel ugly all the time and people hurt me..call me ugly or look at me as if they were disgusted(just see my questions).I know how you feel cuz I go through it everyday
and I always thought about quiting study but you have to hold on
and continue studying cuz it's the only thing that will make you happy later....I'm studying dentistry and I want to become a great one with lots of money and hot wife ^_____~

HOLD ON

Answer 3

You are only young lad, I'm forty now and had trouble with people thinking I'm ugly for years, and now I'm married to a beautiful lady MUCH MORE BEAUTIFUL THAN ALL THE GIRLS I ASKED FOR A DATE ARE DANCE and she is an African princess to boot. I laugh when I think of some of those girls today. Imagine the ugly frog has really got a princess.

Answer 4

Some people out there are going to tell you that looks ain't that important . Without looks how can you find a meaningful relationship .Looks are the very first thing people see and if you can't get past that well all I can say is it's going Tobe a lot of lonely people out there.

Answer 5

Every one has a different opinion and, believe it or not, you will find the perfect woman for you. I got a divorce when I was 21 and never remarried until I was 27. Everyone finds the right person for them at different stages in their life. Hang in there and you will find yours!