I did not know with my first pregnancy and found out by accident with my second, but I didn't tell anyone. I think I actually enjoyed finding out beforehand more because I could enjoy the experience of finding out. With both of my children, I was so exhausted that I didn't even hear the doctor say, It's a ....
I also could relax and enjoy the last part of my pregnancy, as much as that's possible, because I already knew the sex. With my first child, I was so anxious to find out, that I spent all my time wishing he'd be born instead of enjoying those final days bonding with my baby.
It's a hard decision. I don't even know what I would do the next time. I think I might find out, but not tell anyone except my husband. Part of the fun is everyone's excitement when the baby is born. If everyone knows months in advance, it's sort of old news by the time the baby arrives.
2006-11-06 08:09:45
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answered by Brooke22365 4
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I think it's very exciting not to find out the sex of the baby and let it be a surprise however, it is so much easier to find out because then you will be prepared and then you can start buying clothes and things like that for the baby ahead of time. It's cheaper to buy stuff for a girl if you're having a girl or for a boy if you're having a boy instead of buying for both. It is worth the wait when you bring your little bundle of joy into the world but it's easier to be prepared if you find out.
2006-11-06 08:00:08
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answered by Pink Princess 6
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I didn't want to know the sex of my baby. My family hated it too. But I didn't care...I wanted it to be a surprise. I knew all along it was a girl. And if I have another one I'll do the same thing again. It's the fun of it and people have something to talk about when they ask what the sex is. They even get in on the surprise. Good luck and CONGRATS!
2006-11-06 08:05:16
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answered by aimstir31 5
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I really want to know what i am having! I dont really like surpises. and it makes it so much easier when shopping for the baby. but every time i go in to get it checked the babies legs are crossed! so i guess it wants it to be a surpise. so i just will have to deal with it. and i dont really care much anymore. as long as it's healthy!
2006-11-06 07:58:08
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answered by Anonymous
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well i found out due to the fact i just wanted to know & prepair myself for what was comming home pink or blue lol i got blue all 4 xs but the last one was double blue lol 4 pregancies 5 boys wanted 4 girls lol i thank GOD for my blessings. plus i wanted to get the name going while pregnant & they were kicking call the baby by name inside of me ok peter its nap time lol
gl oh cant forget the joy of the ultrasound photos they have the new ones now to where they show you the baby up & close & the entire video taping of thr ultra sound for mommy to take home & share with loved ones they didint have all that when i concieved do it for memmories ask your doctor or you can do it like this if your having a baby shower allow the doctor to call the host & tell the host what your having then at the baby shower family & frinds can surprise you with the sex but you must tell the host to tell all who are attending not to call you & ask ?'s like what are you gonna name the baby boy but if you have the name's picked out you can give it to the host so on the invitaion & cake they can have your name & the baby name printed out on it im so smart lol
ok gl
2006-11-06 08:06:23
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answered by Anonymous
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I Think You Should Definetly Find Out.
You Can Prepare For When The Baby Is Out.
E.g: Name
Clothes
...Things Like That.
2006-11-06 08:04:01
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answered by stu4milk 1
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i found out the first time i loved knowing he was a boy i felt like the bond started from that moment on, its like having two special days instead of one. The second i wanted to be suprised and try something different well when they baby was born i didn't feel the same bond like the first it was actually depressing for me. im on my third and i will always find out from now on i love taking to my belly and calling the baby by their name before they are born.
2006-11-06 08:00:49
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answered by Anonymous
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i'm almost 15 weeks and that i've got already booked in for my next ultrasound at 18 weeks and 5 days to verify. My husband reported he does not desire to understand yet I do. i think of that's totally exciting and the day of the beginning is going to be exciting adequate with no need the ask your self of the toddlers intercourse. i desire to commence procuring stuff too. Goodluck! finally, that's as much as you.
2016-10-03 08:38:51
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answered by ? 4
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My gf is 3 months pregnant
and we keep fighting how its going to be a boy or a girl
lol
we are like dying to know what it is
because its out first child
i think its better to know, so you can have stuff ready for it you know
you dont want to buy girl stuff, if the baby is gonna be a boy or buy boy stuff if its gonna be a girl, but if you like to be surprise, i guess is up to the person
2006-11-06 08:02:27
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answered by johnnys_death 1
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I found out the sex of my first child by accident, I wasn't planning on finding out, I really wanted it to be a surprise. But in the end I was vert glad to have found out because I was ready for her.
2006-11-06 07:58:05
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answered by Stacy D 2
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