My cousin, lives with me andd she does smokes.We aren't allowed to smoke in our house. And we can't have sex until we are married. And she has had sex. When she smokes she says tell me if your mom or dad are here. Should I tell my mom that she smokes? I just don't want her to my cousin to be mad at me. My cousin is 14.
2006-11-06 07:51:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
It is your cosin's own life.
Serously, your parents cant tell you when you will have sex.
Are you parents still going to give you a bed time when you are 20?
I know you care for your cosin, but you will be better off minding your own business. Your parents are not stupid.
2006-11-06 07:54:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wouldn't be a tattletale because it would be for her own good. it's not right for her to be smoking and having sex at such a young age. If you don't, she could get in trouble in the future. If the cops catch her smoking or the school finds out then she is in trouble for smoking. If your mom finds out, yeah sure she might be grounded and she might be mad but at least she won't go to juvie. About the sex, what happens if she comes home pregnant? I'm sure your mom would hate that surprise more than just the announcement she has lost her virginity.
2006-11-06 16:57:54 · answer #2 · answered by Amba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is violating the rules of the house. That is not acceptable. Your parents should be informed before someone else tells them and you BOTH get in major trouble. Smoking is bad enough but if she turns up pregnant, then what? Use your head. Your cousin will get over the mad (and it just may be good for her)
2006-11-06 17:05:33 · answer #3 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense but you should mind your own business. Being a tattletale is not a good thing. Teenagers do experiment with things, that is a part of growing up. Believe me she will get mad at you. Honestly what she does with her body is for her to know and if she wants to tell someone she will do it herself. Keep to yourself and leave your cousin alone, it is her life not yours.
2006-11-06 17:57:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell because if you are having doubts about then you should.And you're cousin's health is at stake here if she can quit now she would be a whole lot healthier.She could die or get lung cancer if it goes to far.You might be able to tell her to get help for smoking,but you're mom can make sure she could quit.
2006-11-06 16:00:58 · answer #5 · answered by ladyranger4348 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't tell on her. just tell her to practice safe sex, use condoms and get on birth control. for the smoking tell her she should smoke else where and that you don't want to get in trouble. if she doesn't stop tell her that you will tell your parents. then she might stop
2006-11-06 15:55:56 · answer #6 · answered by aimeeg_2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her because its for her own good.for 1 thing she's 14!!!! also its gonna come out some day so why not now?
2006-11-06 16:26:19 · answer #7 · answered by lolabunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes tell your mom. Who cares if your cousion gets mad she should respect your parents rules if she's living there.
2006-11-06 16:24:14 · answer #8 · answered by baddrose268 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to stop first then say somehting to your mom...in the long run if she gets caught you might get into just as much trouble also for not saying anything. trust me a secret doesn't always stay a secret.
2006-11-06 15:54:26 · answer #9 · answered by mmh 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, you should tell her, because your cousin is too young to be doing such things and your mom should know so that she can stop her, before it's too late. but first, i would try talking to her myself, and if that doesn't work, then definitely tell your mom.
2006-11-06 15:54:17 · answer #10 · answered by suniti 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋