we've been married for 8 yrs. its a long distance,im in another country.he visit me once a year,but for 2yrs and 1/2 he doesnt visit me.i cant help but to think he's doing "something",he always deny it.but now we're together i see pictures of different girls with him,they're so sweet,again he deny it! there's one time i saw him on his computer searching for escort girls and other stuff like that.
2006-11-06 07:41:47 · 15 answers · asked by rcy123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You know he did!!
2006-11-06 07:44:09 · answer #1 · answered by WyoHunter 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Huh? "I mean I have a VERY open mind. If he has certain sexual fantasies Im here to fulfill everyone of them.." Then why are you beating around the bush, instead of beating his bush? Wait until he falls asleep, then blow him until he's hard and RAPE THAT *****! Then be sure to wake up a little early, and make him a damn good breakfast, because you leached of his his zinc, etc... grinding the poor man. He'll probably be sore for days, after you went bull riding... phew I'm walking funny just thinking about it... ANYWAY! You might get even more "needy" or he might get "needy" or might not even show indifference. Just give it a few days, then blow after work, before dinner... Men really aren't that complicated. If he turned you down while you were raping him, then tell him it's not negotiable. LOL What are you doing nagging him about it? Never, EVER nag a man repeatedly. It is the most sure fire way, to get him to NOT do something. Ask him once then wait a week, and tell him something like, "I looked up symptoms of low testosterone for men in their early 30s, and if they already having hormonal problems at that age, there's probably no hope... So you probably shouldn't even bother, I'm sorry I kept nagging you about it, but I thought I could have helped, etc..." Some kind of bullshit like that... In the back of his mind he might detected that you're bullshitting him, but his left brain will try to find logic in your statement, and thus he'll be confused, ESPECIALLY since he'll remember that the last time you nagged him about was an entire week ago. He'll either privately try to look up what he can do, because you ***** slapped his ego, and men need that stroked. Which brings me into another point. Make sure you make him feel attractive and sexy. Sorry, I know it should be the other way around, but he needs your help, he just doesn't want to admit it. Like when you're riding cowboy, *insert dirty talk here* I hope I don't have to say any more here :) So he'll either try to solve his problem privately, out of shame, or think everything is good now, which will he'll slowly come around. Either way I'd say both are good outcomes. In the back of his mind
2016-05-22 04:58:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are kidding yourself if you think he hasn't been cheating on you. You can't expect a marriage or relationship to last when you only see each other once a year. Is this some kind of joke? This sounds so bizzare to me. You don't marry someone and then not live together. He is cheating and you should forget about him. Is he is the military?
2006-11-06 07:48:25 · answer #3 · answered by hehmommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man can last 2.5 years, but it sounds like your husband did not. Your best evidence is the escort service. What was his explanation for that? I cannot imagine he would have a good one.
2006-11-06 07:45:12 · answer #4 · answered by Bill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO he cant!!!! My ex bf couldnt even last a f___ing year I just found out last week that he had cheated on me several times with a girl and got her pregnant. I kept telling him that I wasnt ready and he was like okay so instead he went and did some other chick cause he couldnt wait. Yeah your husband more than likely cheated on you girl.
2006-11-06 07:55:56 · answer #5 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what!!!???? can a man last a year without sex and only see his wife once a year???
and vice-versa!!!
you two are clearly on a different level that i cannot even imagine, so in that case i have no answer, just wanted to express my shock and amazment at the question.
2006-11-06 07:47:42 · answer #6 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you already know your answer. He could be a sex addict too but either way you need to get out of this relationship until he gets some help!
2006-11-06 07:49:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as much as i hate to say this he is so cheating on you and you are just been inocent about it.NO MEN in this planet will go for 2 1/2 years whit out getting any
2006-11-06 08:51:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible he did but it's also possible he didn't only he knows! I think you have deeper issues, how can you be married to someone and never see them?
2006-11-06 07:46:41 · answer #9 · answered by Born Country 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't even know if you can call what you have a marriage. Sounds like he's moved on.
2006-11-06 07:56:51 · answer #10 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont have enough time to write the jokes on this one i'm otta here (love you next door)
2006-11-06 07:45:15 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋