Gals ,,,, Is it necessary to have at least one experience in sex before marriage?

Question

I m virgin,,

Answer 1

No, no, and no. I think you should stay a virgin until you get married. Both me and my husband weren't and we both wished we would have waited. It can sometimes complicate things. It is a wonderful thing to experience that for the first time with your husband. I say stay strong and don't let any guy talk you into it before you are ready. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin even if people tell you otherwise don't listen. You should be proud of yourself.

Answer 2

Necessary? NO. Wise? Not even. What if you aren't sexually compatible? While to a virgin, this may sound insane,"Oh, I love him so much, that won't happen". Not only can it happen, but it very possibly may. That is adorable that you are a virgin, but 10 years from now when you are wondering what it would have been like with this one or that one, not so cute. Think about it before you make a big mistake, and end up on here asking, "should I get a divorce?".

Answer 3

ya, cuz you wont have time for the next 60 years lol - just kidding, stay a virgin. the fewer the sex partners the hotter it makes you.

an experienced girl is good for a night, but if you really want a guys heart let him know he's the only one.

when's the last time you saw a beautiful stripper in a happy r-ship? ... never! which is weird because from the outside you'd think they had it all.

too bad their special guy knows he'll be getting what usually costs every other guy a handful of crumpled up bills.

besides sex gets boring quick, the 1 thing that really made it better was the anticipation and the fun of discovery.

now that ive done eveything id every want to do, and my gf has too. its kinda monotonous.

sex with a girl thats gotten used to having sex all the time isnt as fun and sure as hell isnt as much of a turn on as fresh enthusiasm

besides what are you gonna tell your husband.

"well you dont have to worry about me, i learned how to play with your balls while i go down on you, some guy in a club showed how a couple weeks ago, you dont have to worry about me being all nice and tight down there either , cuz he and his friends broke me in... damn that hurt, i hope you're not as big as that one guy was"

lol

Answer 4

I believe so personally! I think of it like this, sex is an important part of a marriage, not the most, but important. If you don't have any sexual chemisty, that will have a negative effect on your marriage. Because, you may have respect, love, security, but if you can't have a good sex life, it will wear on you. I am not trying to say that you will divorce if you don't have sex before you get married, but why not find out if it works with you both. Good Luck!

Answer 5

Well I am of the belief you try on your shoes before you buy them, but that is just me. My best friends sister had her first kiss at their wedding. The whole you may kiss the bride thing was their very first kiss even! It worked for them. They have been happily married about 7 years now with 4 kids

Answer 6

I was a virgin. My husband of 7 1/2 yrs was my first kiss, date, boyfriend, sex, everything!!! When you're ready you're ready no matter if your married or not.

Answer 7

Absolutely not! I was a virgin before I met my husband and I don't regret that at all! It has actually made it much more special for me!!

Answer 8

I believe that by knowing what else is out there, it will help the marriage stay together during rough times. Your mind will not wonder what you may be missing.

Answer 9

I Didn't Think There were any Virgin's left In society Today.

Answer 10

No, its not necessary but i think its a good idea. Its good to have other experiences so you learn what it is that you like and don't like.