Why are more and more men becoming gay?

Question

I want good and honest answers from you guys not excuses and please don't say that you were born that way. Is it the new trend? did someone influence/brainwash you to make you think that you are too (pretending to help you get out of the closet)? is it tv? is it because it is the thing to do since it's easier to hook up with guys than girls? were you one of the boys who couldn't really get girls back in high school because you were too skinny, ugly, full of acne or did you get laughed at or made fun of by girls, or you didn't dare approaching girls when you were younger, maybe you also got hurt by a girl or more somewhere along the way? boys like to experience with things, did you try having a physical relationship with a guy at some point and liked it because you don't have to worry about someone getting pregnant or at the time being in a relationship? could also be that you liked the fact that you can have a lot more physical relations with guys than girls?

Answer 1

You say in your question that you don't want to hear that gay men are born that way? Well I'm sorry, but that's your answer! Why don't you want to hear the truth??!!

GAY PEOPLE DIDN'T CHOOSE TO BE GAY. WE WERE BORN THAT WAY!!

So there you have it. : )

Answer 2

Well saying your born that way isn't a real answer. You are not born gay. You can make up evidence that you can but point blank you can't and there is no real evidence to show you can be.
That being said most people are gay because of something that happen to them or just lust. In a most recent survey more homosexuals are depressed then any other individual.
They buy in to there lie and convince them selfs it's true. Like when somebody gets in trouble and lies and lies to get out of trouble so much they believe their lies. Its like that but now its socially acceptable and cool and all over TV music and movies others are trying to fit in.
Gross! People banned in their beliefs for addictions.

Answer 3

I believe gays are born not made I am not gay but am a transvestite, was I born or made? I dont know when I was about 4/5 used to play with the girl next door and she loved playing dressing up games and would dress me in her clothes, I have been doing it ever since so was I born this way or did that girl make me? I think born she just made me know how good it felt Thinking back to early teen years, I admired girls but had no time for them as I much preferred the company of boys, doing boy things like football, cycling ,table tennis,snooker, scrumping etc, in fact girls seemed to get in the way. If other guys went through this same thing Maybe (only maybe) some formed a relationship with another guy, to those were they born or became gay? I think this arguement could go on for years as know one really knows apart from their own experiences. My experience is that I was born the way I am

Answer 4

Well you don't want to hear the truth so what does it matter. It is now a therory (proof Im sure to come) that genes have begun to change and mutate. Causing people to be gay at birth. It appears that these genes began to really change approx. 40 years ago. Hence the large growth of men coming out at more mature ages. realizing they have been all along.

perhaps this is a way for God to help control the population growth. Who's to say for sure. however it is clearly been proven it is not outside sources like TV that has changed men. It is become the most accpeted that it was there from birth in the genetics.

It has just only become accepted by mainstream society in the last 20 years to be gay and to not be presecuted byt bigoted, ignorate people like yourself.

Answer 5

Yes, people are born that way because the parents or someone in the blood line of the family open the door to homosexuality through porn or the actual act itself. The act being; homosexuality or perversion of some kind. Therefore the devil had permission to go in the womb (doorway) of the mother during conception and pervert the child, because there was never repentance from the person that opened the door to that demonic perverted spirit. In the book of Job located in the bible, the devil asked God for permission to torment Job. God allowed it because Job gave the devil a doorway into his life due to fear. Fear was the doorway to the devil coming in Jobs life to torment him. The bible says in 2Tim 1:7 God has not given us the spirit of fear, but of power, love and a sound mind. So Job sinned by fearing something terrible was going to happen to his kids & guess what? It did. So the same goes for all sin. Different sins have different out comes? They can affect us or our offspring. Remember going to the doctor & being asked to run down the health of your family history? Disease can be passed down the blood line & so can sins and the outcome of it. You can also repent for the sins of your forefathers or parents if they won't repent themselves or if their DEAD. Repent for the blood line of your family. Tell the devil NO to sin and be strong. Men stop being weak minded and falling prey to the latest trend. Ask God Almighty to give you STRENGTH. Thank God The Lord is Gracious & we can repent of our sins & be forgiven and that sin will be forgotten as if it never happened. Read Isaiah 1:16,18. This message you won't learn in the history class.

Answer 6

I don't think it's that men (and women for that matter) are "becoming gay". I think it's that more and more people are NOT afraid to be who they are. Society is slowly, but surely, becoming more accepting of the gay community. It's safer now to live our lives normally and openly. I'm sure there are some people who have decided to try out a same sex relationship "just because" but most people have been gay since childhood. Some don't discover it or deal with it until late in life!

Answer 7

Fact - Tere is no gay gene..
My path to acceptance that I was more gay than bi happened slowly, after two failed marriages. There was no instant realization, but many smal ones. At 22, in college, I began to notice naked men in the showers. When after getting drunk a friend challenged me to exchange blow jobs.a year late. Sharing tents at a week end camp out. I married and had a successful sex life, though my gay encounters still pooped into my head form time to time. I was always faithful to my wife.
when she went off to find herself, I found my interet turning more and more and more and more more to male partners.
I married again had more kids.. Though we had a successful sex life, My gradually evolving gay side won out. We divorce, I met my parner, and we not live together.

Answer 8

Honey, if I wanted a girl, trust me, I could have one. And to let you know, there is no choice in the matter. I'm not going to spend a lot of my time arguing the point, I'm sure all you did was ask this question to rile people up. It's not a choice, get over it, too bad, end of story. You're probably mad because you fell in love with a gay man...how sad for you.

Answer 9

Look I don't know if you know this but in Ancient Greece the gay community was incredible high 40% then it decreased when the cristians started to use hell as a (fantastic) punishment.
Now I've readed that the gay gen is in all of us but sometimes (majority of time) it does not developed then in those that it does it creates what we call gay people they say that the gen is starting to develop even faster cuz the world's evolution (ever heard of it)
As you can see more people are coming out of the closet simple more outis mora gay people

Answer 10

It used to be that there were very few open gays an no gay society of which to speak, so the gay guys got married anyway, or became priests, because there was nothing else to do. Now that we are closer to being accepted as members of society's, more people are willing to be honest with themselves and others and live the way they were made, instead of trying to be something they are not.

Answer 11

Do you really think anyone chooses to be gay? Your sexual orientation is defined before puberty and is then fixed - see the research information at the American Psychological Association website for more info. (LInk below).

What may be happening is that more gay men are feeling it is safe to be themselves, rather than pretending to be something they are not. In the past, many men tried to live as straight guys, when they were actually gay. The result was a lot of unhappy women, and despairing guys. Now in many places, though not all, gay men can proudly say they are gay and persue meaningful relationship with men.