as in sexually. I guess the word is a "nympho". Just sounds really bad. Anyway, im finding that I need sex more than just a couple if times a day. I only want it from my girlfriend though. I just think about it ALL THE TIME & I want it all the time. Her sex drive isnt as high as mine & i dont know what to do!! Im worried that she'll think im unsatisfied with her, but im really not. I love it which is why i want it so much! What should i do??
2006-11-06 06:54:05 · 11 answers · asked by Raynebow_Diva 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
First off Good Sex will make you want it. I've been there.
What you can do since your girlfriend sex drive is not as high and you don't want to put any pressure on her to have sex. Get a sex toy not a dildo but just a toy that stimulates the clit. I know it wont give you the same effect as your girlfriend but it can give you what you need until you and her have sex again. Its a good thing to use because you don't want them to think you are unsatified and you dont want to pressure them its just GOOD SEX!!! and this way you can get what you need in between times.
I would however tell my girlfriend about the toy (if this is something you want to try) Just to get her opinion and what she think about it. It can become a game. You know you can have a little phone sex or if you two live together then she can watch or join in : ) It can become like a fantasy game. Very Fun!!
I know some people are just not into masterbation and I understand so if that is the case then try this:
When you start to feel this way and you and her can't have sex try to think of something that wil take your mind off it.
For me my mantra is an "Old Man Naked on a Cold Day."
Or work. Trust me once you invision an old manstaning stark naked on a cold day you are either gonna laugh or be disgusted
2006-11-06 09:36:17 · answer #1 · answered by Some1Special 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You aren't an addict. Addiction is dangerous, detrimental behavior that negatively affects your life. Anything else is just a big hobby, something that you do. Therefore if you can't do certain things without alcohol, if it badly affects your job, social life, health, etc., then it is an addiction. Liking to drink but getting no ill side effects from it, even if you're drinking more than just casually, is not addiction. Same with sex. You like it, you like it a lot, but it isn't damaging you in any way that I can see.
Talk to your girlfriend, tell her how you feel and how horny you are, but how you have no desire to cheat, you just want to know if she's okay with you two upping the boom-boom time in the bedroom. If she understands but still isn't up for it, then it's time to invest in some high quality machinery (dildos, vibrators, etc.), some good porn, and take care of things yourself.
Good luck!
2006-11-06 09:16:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long has this level of sexuality been active in your life? That makes a difference. If it is relatively new, then you may simply be experiencing a shift in your energy level. But if it persists then you might want to see someone because sex more than three times a day is a ticket to obsessive behavior patterns.
2006-11-06 07:05:52 · answer #3 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to look for a SLAA meeting, but you don't sound like an addict. Sexually addiction focuses on the 'chase' really, and when you get the person agreeable to your advances, you don't even care about doing it.
It sounds like you just have a higher libido than your girlfriend.
2006-11-06 06:58:28 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use your toys more often. Just get yourself some of those vibrating panties with the remote control. I'm sure she'll be glad to give you a tickle a few times here and there!!!
2006-11-06 07:30:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are people with an addiction to sex. It's time to find a specialist. There are therapist that can help. If the desire is so strong that it's harming your quality of life then it's time to do something about it.
2006-11-06 09:58:36 · answer #6 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your an addict if you if you need sex all the time and if you go to random people when denied sex from someone you know.
2006-11-06 06:58:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a lesbian
i feel the same so i know what you are feeling all you want to do do is kiss them and have sex all day long everyday but only with my girlfriend
I suggest you see how she feels if she feels the sme why fight it
2006-11-07 04:16:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Masterbate in front of her with or without toys. Maybe that will turn her on. Or watch XXX movies with her, they ALWAYS get me in the mood.
2006-11-06 06:59:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Believe me you are not the only one and you surely will not be the last
2006-11-06 07:40:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋