Ok my fiance and i started having sex like a month ago, and like the second time that we had sex i bled for a little bit....but i thought maybe it was from my menses which ended a couple days before. Then another time we did it and i was in pain after, and then when i went to the bathroom i found some spotting on my underwear.....he was the second guy i slept with and before that i hadn't have sex for a while, and when i did it for the very first time i didn't bleed....could it be that we did it too rough or something else....please help im very concern...and i have to see the obgyn in about 2 weeks....... thank you for your time.
2006-11-06 06:53:39 · 11 answers · asked by Baby Girl 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Oh and we always use a condom....or could it be that vagina canal or whatever you call it is too short..so whenever we do it, he hits the cervic?
2006-11-06 07:04:23 · update #1
He could have just slightly tapped your cervix. That's where the saying "knock the bottom out of that thing" came from. When I was pregnant, I began to bleed heavily after sex with my husband. He rushed me to the hospital, worrying about the baby's health. The baby ended up to be fine and what happened was during sex he hit my cervix (which is very sensitive during pregnancy and in your case inexperienced women), thus causing me to bleed. That could be all it is, but I would still mention this to your gyno to rule out any underlying problem. Good Luck!
2006-11-06 06:58:33 · answer #1 · answered by Vikky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch! I'm 29 and have had the same problem with my fiance and no he was definitley not my first time lol. There are several problems and I've found that the main one is well, he's too big for you so you're going to need lubrication, try astroglide, it's not really sticky and doesn't burn like KY. Also talk to your gyn, the suggestions I just gave you were given to me by my gyn so she/he might tell you the same thing. After a while you should stop with the bleeding but you might still get sore and swollen like I do sometimes you just gotta work through the pain though to please your man.
2006-11-06 15:01:52 · answer #2 · answered by Jersey Style 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly your hymen was not completely broken. It sounds normal since you are still at the beginning of your sex life. But if it persists, you must see your doctor, because you might have some sort of minor problem that causes the bleeding. Also try to take it slow and do a lot of foreplay, so that you can be more aroused and naturally lubricated and your vagina wider when you start sex.
2006-11-06 15:02:34 · answer #3 · answered by cpinatsi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the hymen is only stretched with the first few acts. Subsequent acts will actually tear it a bit more. It should get better. Don't worry. And just tell the obgyn doc about it when you see him/her.
2006-11-06 14:59:04 · answer #4 · answered by ThatLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This does sound unusual. If your hymen is already broken, then you ought not to have spotting other than from your period. If that timing is off, then the reasons for your bleeding are harder to imagine. You should get your gyn to take a look for sure.
2006-11-06 14:56:21 · answer #5 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two are probably just doing IT to rough.Why dont you tell him to ease it a little bit and maybe try one more time.Do you use condoms?If so put it in your details.
2006-11-06 14:56:42 · answer #6 · answered by idwebi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is he rushing you without enough "preparation" (wink). He might need to up the f-play a little and wait until you are "ready".
2006-11-06 14:55:33 · answer #7 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may well be nothing, but its wise to have the Obgyn checkup.
2006-11-06 14:57:07 · answer #8 · answered by huggz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is okay. after 6 months your become tight again. you probly torn some thing. good thing you called the doc. so you basiclly answered your own question. if it gets worse got to a doctor.
2006-11-06 14:57:00 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda . 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have not experienced this yet, maybe because I am a guy.
2006-11-06 14:55:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋