i have not so long posted a question saying im 10 weeks preg i am 17 and my b.friend wants 2 ed it with me cause he feels trapped..and i have 2 more questions..how could i get him back what could i say? and i think im keeping the baby but im scared cause i am young and i dont know where im goin to live or how im going to support my child..any1 got any advice please?..x
2006-11-06 06:42:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If he wants to leave let him. What good is it going to do when you have someone that doesnt want you back. That hurts alot more than having a loving relationship. Keep the baby. The least you can do is go find someone who is going to love you and the baby regardless
2006-11-06 06:45:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I don't know how to say this end it now see a lawyer place the baby with a family who wants a child badly. Stay away from sperm donor. He's not worrying about any of the things you are.Truthfully they are real concerns.To have that much on your mind while pregnant and alone is too much.And yes maybe he might change his mind but guess what you need him now not later when all he may do is later leave you again.Try an open adoption this is a decision and a choice other than abortion. Life is good sweetie and it would be a better place if all men were real men. By that i mean RESPONSIBLE,HONEST and TRUST-WORTHY
2006-11-06 14:56:30 · answer #2 · answered by tastyflow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a firm beleiver in doing the best thing for your baby. If you are that young and have no way to support your child then your best option would probably be adoption, give your child a chance to have a wonderful life with great parents. Open adoption will allow you to still have contact with your child and it will know who you are and that you love it very much.
2006-11-06 14:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by chairkiss_silver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think there is anything you could say or do to get your boyfriend back unless he wanted to come back. You cant force him to want to be in your life even though he impregnanted you. Ive never been in a situation like that but you have to to be open to the fact that he may not come back to you and focus more on what would be best for you and the baby if that does not happen.
Wish you the best.
2006-11-06 14:47:36 · answer #4 · answered by pyxiegyrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he wants to go let him, keep your baby. And if it every comes down to it you can always get child support for your baby, it is his responsiblity to, Don't stress yourself out. I hope he comes to terms with what he did and will be there for the baby no matter what, b/c i bet that is what you want. I wish you nuthin bu good luck...
2006-11-06 14:51:55 · answer #5 · answered by TM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl if he wants to leave let him it will be a lot harder on you if he stays and he doesn't really want to be there....have the baby make him take a dna test and get child support....that is the best way to do it......you and your child deserve much more than someone who doesn't want to be there.....you deserve the world and so does that baby.....it may be scary but surround yourself with people that love and care about you and you will make it through.....
2006-11-06 15:34:41 · answer #6 · answered by just me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋