I have felt depressed and un motivated or supressed most of my life
my self esteem is almost none exsistence i have blamed myself most of my life or felt guilty about who I am now i just tired but i wont to live and be happy lol what a cunondrum do you have any answers for me
2006-11-06 06:13:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I know lot of people with low self esteem. To coverup that they do imitating others peers, collegues etc; and this lead to lack of motivation and laziness and even scudlgerry. One should always do what one is motivated to do what ones inner motivation and faith lead to.
2006-11-06 06:18:26 · answer #1 · answered by Mathew C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To answer the heading of your question: Some people are just turned one way or the other (ie: motivated or lazy). Think about the things that make you happy. Focus on them as much as you can. Look around you, inside your house/apartment and outside, what can you do/must you do to make things liveable? Start one step at a time and do them. Be thankful for all that you can physically do, if you have no physical handicap. If you do, this life--ALL OF IT--- is the hand you've been dealt. Play the hand the best you can regardless...you only go 'round once.
2006-11-06 06:22:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen you have to decide right now what side of the fence you want to be on. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a lazy person. the only person that has to deal with that, IS YOU. As long as you are comfortable being yourself a "LAZY PERSON" then you could live and die happy. but if you can't live with out accomplishing anything without being someone with out leaving the world better than you found it. Then you have to realize that it starts with you deciding right now what would you be happy with?
2006-11-06 07:04:13 · answer #3 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When someone-by possibly mere chance-comes to to the point where he/she desires to be a better and good, happy person, then he/she will fight against laziness. Of course, this is assuming the person has no health problems...
2006-11-06 07:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by lewa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to find a true answer to this is to search inside of yourself and take a long, deep look into your personal history. A licensed professional can help you look at it all with objectivity and common sense. When you see what causes a particular behavior, you can be on your way to healing. Prayers and best of luck to you.
2006-11-06 06:21:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
every person is different, some when depressed nothing seams to be going for theme self, so they give up and quit trying to better them seves. You got to find a goal in life or main topic of ones desires. quilt sulkin. keep looking to better your self turn to Jesus.
Always be good to others and don't take out your fustrations on others.
2006-11-06 06:49:45 · answer #6 · answered by Barrett m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It could be hereditary or a product of your environment. But if you know that you have a problem then that is half the battle. The other half is seeking help and solving the problem.
2006-11-06 06:26:59 · answer #7 · answered by voandginger 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1.)um.... it seems like you want to commit suicide. My advice to you is to stay away from knives, chainsaws, or scissors, or anythiing else that u could use to kill urself. (and also stay away from urself b/c u seem VERY VERY dangerous)
2.) ....... just go to a doctor or talk to someone, goodluck = )
2006-11-06 06:27:51 · answer #8 · answered by souza 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋