should i do this?

Question

this boy asked me if i wanted to have sex with him and i am like 13 and he iz like 14 so what should i say well i am kinda experienced but some of my friends say i should take the chance and others say no what should i do .... thanx every1 for the help

Answer 1

yes of course you should have sex with him we know every girl is a whor.. and you should let him take your virginity and let him get you knocked up and may be let him give u a STD come on 13 is the best age to have sex come on

Answer 2

You are too young to be thinking about having sex. I am the mother of an almost 14 yr old girl..... and 13 is way too young. Wait a few more years...don't rush it. Your body may be mature enough to handle it ( so you think) , but there is a lot that goes with it...not just the act itself. Are you ready if the boy only wants it this one time and then NEVER speaks to you. What if you give in and then he tells all his friends and then they want some... are you ready for that type of life or feeling? Please, WAIT!!!!

Answer 3

First and foremost, you never said how you feel about having sex and from this I gather that you are not ready. Secondly, at 13 you are too young for the emotional aspects of such a commitment. You need to be concerned with protecting yourself physically from sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancy. If you give in, have sex with this boy and never hear from him again, How will you feel? A bad pregnancy or STD at your age could cost you children in the future or your life. My advise is say no. If you do decide to do it, make sure you do not have sex without a condom.

Answer 4

I would advise against it at your age. If I had it to do over again I wouldn't have as young as i did. There are so many emotional issues beyond the physical that go with sex that one is just NOT ready for at that age.

But then the old adage "if you can't be good, be careful" is more relevant now than ever. That can't be overstated. An unplanned pregnancy or STD can change your life forever.

Think it over.

Answer 5

No you shouldn't have sex. You are at an age where you could be very fertile. That means you could get pregnant on the 1st try.
Boys at this age will do, & say anything to have sex with you. Don't give it away, they'll either give you a baby, or a disease, & then disappear.

Answer 6

If you're comfortable with going through with it, then MAKE SURE YOU"RE SAFE ABOUT IT!!! ALWAYS use protection and make sure that both of you are clean. Get both of you tested if either one of you is "experienced" at all! I'm not trying to yell, I'm trying to make sure you get how important this is. There are too many girls that ruin their lives because they were being "young and stupid." They pay for it by dropping out of school, losing job opportunities, dying of AIDS, etc.

Answer 7

Have you ever heard of AIDS? This is what is happening more and more now, especially in younger females. Protect yourself, stop listening to your friends, and be the "good" girl. Trust me, 10 years from now, u won't regret it!

Answer 8

I would say no, your way to young and if you don't have feelings for this boy, definitely don't do it!!!! Wait until you in a serious relationship with someone that you love.

Answer 9

At 13 and 14 you are to young....you don't even know what you are doing....what about std's and pregnancy....are you ready for that?

Answer 10

No, do you really want to get yourself pregnant? And even with a condom on, what would your parents think?
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