pain durring sex but im all wet and white discharge?

Question

i have pain durring sex with my bf,its not my first time and i get very wet but it still hurts a bit.i also have this white discharge which doesnt smell.wots wrong with me

Answer 1

Being wet is not a green go sign for penetrative sex, men and women have sex differently and it is important that you have sex prior to penetration to insure that you are relaxed and aroused enough in order to have sex – when aroused your vaginal muscles relax and your vagina lengthens, your clitoris will also become erect, things such as lubrication, swollen labia and hard nipples are all initial signs of arousal.

Discharge is something all women get at all times, it is part of the vaginas self-cleaning functions as well as there to protect the delicate mucosa of the vagina, when aroused your vagina also produces lubrication to help aid penetration.

It would be a very good idea for you to learn more about your body and sex before carrying on having sex, a good article is 'From Ow! To Wow!' from Scarleteen - http://www.scarleteen.com/sexuality/owtowow.html

Answer 2

1st, the discharge. All women have some of this, some women have more than others. The amount will vary during your cycle. White, unsmelly discharge that is unaccompanied by itching or pain is just part of life. You can wear pantiliners to keep your underpants tidy.

2nd, something like 2/3 of women will have painful intercourse at some point in their lives. Being lubricated is not all that you need... you need to be fully relaxed and aroused. A lot of medical conditions (hemorrhoids, latex allergy, lesions) can cause pain. Some women unconsciously tense up their vaginal muscles, making sex painful. This tends to be a recurring problem, because memories of the painful sex last time cause you to tense up again, giving you painful sex this time, and so on.

Anyway, the point is there's a lot of causes of this. Get checked out by a doctor and see if it's medical in nature. If you have a history of bad sexual experiences (such as being molested or raped, or just feeling like sex is dirty), try calling a therapist. In the meantime, work on being relaxed during sex... take lots of time for foreplay (sometimes taking your 1st orgasm before penetration is helpful). Good luck!

Answer 3

possibly a yeast infection. could also be another problem that I think is called Bacterial vaginosis. I showed signs of it at one of my papsmears. I was dating a guy exclusively, and he was seeing only me, and it got to the point where I didn't want sex because it hurt every time and I was experiencing some foul odor from time to time. I also hurt when we weren't having sex sometimes. mainly a couple hours after sex. after we broke up (long story, unrelated, possibly, to my lack of interest in sex due to pain) and I had been using unscented washes (St Ives and stuff) and not having sex for a while, it cleared up. last checkup I was fine and the doctor didn't find any signs of it. it could also relate to the birth control. well, the discharge could. the change of hormones could still be hard on your body. it takes a while to adjust to the pill and off the pill. either go to the doctor and just ask him/her what's wrong or start off by going to a pharmacy/drugstore/walmart/CVS/etc and getting the vagasil yeast infection test.

Answer 4

Hemorrhoids are swollen and inflamed veins in the anal canal. They can be itchy, bleeding and/or painful protrusions just under the skin. To get rid of hemorrhoids you can use this natural method that already have thousands of positive reviews https://tr.im/wmf8L
There are two types internal and external. Internal are inside the anal canal in the lower rectum and external are at the anus. They result from increased pressure in the veins often due to straining during bowel movements and during pregnancy. Scratching in an attempt to relieve the itching symptoms further weakens the area and compounds the problem.

Answer 5

Yea the white discharge happens, thats normal (im just gonna be straightforward). Thats ***... and the pain, my gf gets it too, its just by going too deep, or too rough. take it easy for a while, like dont stop, just dont go like crazily fast and rough and youll be good... the pain happens if you dont have sex alot, it tightens back up briefly, so yea be safe, and have fun ;)

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Answer 8

it sopunds like you have thrush. very common and sup[er easy treated. Either go to your doctor and have it checked out or try the canisten cream stuff. If it is thrush you b/f will have it as well so he needs to treat the problem or you will get it again very fast. if you like thongs and knickers that aren't cotton it can make the problem occur more often.
hope this helps

Answer 9

where exactally is the pain you have? Differentplaces can mean different things, is it in your abdomon? Do you empty your bladder prior to intercourse?

Answer 10

Nothing but you need to relax!
Another thing is have you been on recently? You may have left a tampon up there?!