Seems like a weird question, but for all of you who know you are completly gay(not bi) and have tried to sleep with someone of the oppsite sex in the past: What did it feel like? Did it feel bad, wrong? How were you able to climax? Thanks alot! (no i'm not confused about my sexuality just want to know)
2006-11-06 05:13:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Can I hear from some of the fellas too please?
2006-11-06 05:55:43 · update #1
let me reword a little.. did you feel turned on? what is the difference in feeling?(i know that's hard to put into words)
2006-11-06 06:22:59 · update #2
I can't answer this personally but I have alot of gay friends (mostly male) and have had many discussions in gay bars with gay men and women about this subject. Roughly half of them told me they've had sex with the opposite gender. Most of them did it in their younger years as a "test" to themselves. At least 85% of them said they didn't get pleasure out of it and wanted to get it over with. The rest said it was only OK. I think it's harder for gay men because they have to maintain an erection (they have to fantasize about guys to keep it). I totally understand it. As a straight woman the thought of any woman touching me does nothing for me and EWW!, having my face between a woman's legs would be mortifying.
2006-11-06 12:12:21 · answer #1 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could think beautiful disgusted since I don't like ladies. I like men and regularly will so this could be rather bizarre for me as I am no longer used to it. Plus you must feel what if she grew to be pregnant from me or something like that. For me it's only a no. If it ever occurred then it occurred however however I can not say a lot right here since I simply do not love it.
2016-09-01 08:08:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont have any feelings because i dont sleep with the opposite sex! But when i was trying to give it a shot, it wasnt that bad while i was younger. But the more my attraction for women grew, i started being more & more turned off by men until they couldnt please me at ALL. So if i tried to sleep with one now i would probably literally fall asleep. (after i threw up:-)
2006-11-06 05:24:11 · answer #3 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can't really answer this because I am straight, but I just needed to say that that was a really horrible answer to leave Mr. I hate and if you feel that way, why answer this question? wouldn't you be breaking some homophobic anti-gay association law? It's 2006 man, seriously get with it. Argh! You may hate crackers I hate bigots!
2006-11-06 05:22:29 · answer #4 · answered by Slutlana 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i was straight then i was bi and now i am a lesbian
yesterday i was told that i should try having sex with the opistite sex so i did it felt strange because i am used to surtain things but it wasnt that bad but i am stiking to girls they are just what i love having sex with nothing or nobody else
any lesbians out there e mail me
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2006-11-06 05:24:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It didn't feel bad or wrong to me, it just felt...unfulfilling.
**In response to your additional comment: Obviously I was able to function, but I wasn't really excited or turned on. The feel of a man's body, his excitement, and energy, is what gets me going.
2006-11-06 06:13:00 · answer #6 · answered by ByTheSea 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I never have because I have never been interested in the opposite sex...and have never had any desire to "try" it.
2006-11-06 14:53:48 · answer #7 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't be comfortable @ all to sleep with women.
2006-11-06 06:49:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
EWW d!cks are nasty...
2006-11-06 05:50:32 · answer #9 · answered by emo girl 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋