I am very disappointed now since my roomate who has been a wonderful friend of mine for two years ran off and got married.
My roomate is the sister of my brother's fience. A week ago my roomate took off with her boyfriend who she only knew for a month. My brother's fience and I waited and waited for the roomate to come back home but she had not come home after 12 hours. We left her voice messages and then later after 12 hours she finally called and told us that she was on her way to get married.
Her sister and I cried the whole night. We thought, 'how can she be so mean and do this to us. we told her not to date that guy because we knew he was not a good guy. ' Not only that if something was wrong with her she should at least came to me or to her sister and tell us. But no, she left and got married.
The reason why she took off was because she was preganet with the boyfriend's kid. how stupid!
Should I be mad? Hrmm...
2006-11-06 04:34:27 · 3 answers · asked by DORKALICIOUS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The friend thought she was fixing it by marrying the baby's daddy. She will soon find out what a BIG HUGE mistake she has made and she will need you two to come back to. She was upset and not thinking clearly. Don't be mad at her. Be mad at him...You should have got your brother after the guy to begin with so he would not have asked her out. lol But anyway, what has happened has happened. Just be ready when she comes back....and don't say I told ya so.....She will see that enough...I can assure you. I hope this helps....Because if we are friends, we are friends forever, through the good and the bad.
2006-11-06 04:41:18 · answer #1 · answered by chocoholic_40 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Exactly what good will come of you being judgemental, disappointed, and mad. This has nothing to do with you. What this girl did was in her mind for her own best interest. The world is not all about you, and what you want and think, Other people are more than capable of making up their own minds and living their own lives.When your own life is the mirror of perfection then feel free to get a degree and rule others, until then be a friend and keep your judgements to yourself
2006-11-06 04:56:30 · answer #2 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can be disappointed. But it is not your life. The only thing you can do is be there for her no matter what.
2006-11-06 04:53:38 · answer #3 · answered by Deana S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋