I was with this one girl yesterday, who I have loved since I firsted layed eyes on her, and she first forced herself to like me, and then she broke up with me, but it didn't end well....
Anyways, I have stood with her through thick and through thin, and she told me 2 nights ago how she truly felt about me. She said that she really likes me. Unfortunately, she has a boyfriend... Before she told me how she felt, she asked me who I liked, and I told her that I didn't like anybody at the moment (but I still loved her, even though I told everyone that I didn't like her for my own security. The only way that I would go through with telling people how I truly felt about her is if the love that I felt for her was returned.) She told me that she likes me, so I now feel as though I could do/say anything with her. I hung out with her on Sunday and we watched The Omen, and we were just holding each other, we were kind of tickling each other, and it got to the point of not kissing, but
2006-11-06 04:30:43 · 10 answers · asked by Jake 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
holding and caressing each other.
I feel a really strong emotional connection with her, and I truly believe that I am in love with her. I just feel as though I am ruining her relationship with her boyfriend. I just can't seem to live with myself if I destroy their relationship...
2006-11-06 04:37:03 · update #1
Dude......
I had a similar experience with a girl, and it ended as bad as it possibly could.
It's that she wants you to love her, but that she doesn't love you, she just loves to be loved by you. She just wants to know that you're there, waiting in the wings, in love with her.
My best and honest advise having been through a similar thing is to break it off right now before it gets too messy.
My guess is that when you do this she'll be all over you trying to keep you around.
Good luck man,
T
2006-11-06 04:36:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of call if she has a boyfriend and shes going to th movies with you and tickling you shes a cheater. One thing about a cheater is that if they cheat on someone else there is nothing to stop them from cheating on you!
Second, your so worried about getting called out and everyone knowing she doesn't feel the same way about you, hey love is painful. No one gets in or out of a relationship the same way they came in, no one. If you want love you have to be man enough to risk your heart for it, stop being a baby.
Three, You know she had a boyfriend and your tickling her and seeing a movie with her? Uh your just as guilty as she is.. Grow up and realize you can't play both sides of the fence there kiddo.
Either your a stand up guy that is worth loving, or your going to end up with little cheating whores and get your heart broken the way you deserve when your help someone cheat... You can't have your cake and eat it too.
So why don't you quit worrying about this cheater and get yourself right so that if the right girl does come along you are worth loving...
Just a thought..
2006-11-06 12:43:39 · answer #2 · answered by blonde_n_brilliant 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Drop her jake.. U dont wana be in a possition where u are a safe ground for her while she explores out there.. She wants a home to come back to.. That is u.. But Right know dont let her take u for granted.. If she is forcing her to like u... it will never work..... because eventually it wil wear off! :(
2006-11-06 12:36:20 · answer #3 · answered by Tazzzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she still like you but she just don't know how to tell you Because you said y'all was holding each if y'all still like each other then y'all need to get back together because these little games y'all play with each other not gioing to work because you said you still love her so just ask her out on a date and when she have time then get her number
2006-11-06 13:47:09 · answer #4 · answered by lil boosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't wait for her. but keep her as ur friend. Moove along with your life and get a girl that feels the way u feel then u'll be with a girl on the same page as u.
2006-11-06 12:40:40 · answer #5 · answered by Thebronx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on! Have good memories of her, but you're not getting anywhere. I had the same problem and believe me it's not worth being miserable over.
There are better days ahead if you move on.
2006-11-06 12:34:40 · answer #6 · answered by the shadow knows 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHAT'S HOLDING YOU BACK. DO WHAT YOU NEED TO DO . SHE WOULDNT EVEN GAVE YOU HER COMPANY IF SHE WASNT FEELING HER. TELL HER YOU LIKE HER TO.....NOT LOVE SHE MIGHT TAKE YOUURE LOVE FOR HER AS A WEAKNESS. APPROACH HER THOUGH....JUST DO IT AT LEAST YOU WILL KNOW THATYOU TRIED. IF SHE DOESNT ACCEPT SIMPLY PUT MOVE ON. YOU ARE YOUNG AND THERE ARE PLENTY OF PEOPLE TO CHOOSE FROM. ....GO FOR IT.
2006-11-06 12:32:25 · answer #7 · answered by HOT 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is a way to make things right and it sounds like you have done it.
2006-11-06 12:34:00 · answer #8 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u need to be honest with her!~maybe she's feeling the same way u feel but is hiding it like you are!So just be honest!
2006-11-06 12:33:54 · answer #9 · answered by babytwin22000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont love her. Your infatuated.
2006-11-06 12:33:06 · answer #10 · answered by Bambi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋