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No Physical abuse suggestions that one could be done for by the law please.

2006-11-06 04:22:36 · 26 answers · asked by sugar 2 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

for men who find this petty and sexist and offensive my ex walked out on me and my 2 year old while i was six months pregnant for a woman who lives 10 doors down- and no she is not prettier than me- to add insult to injury he proposed to her the day i gave birth!!!

2006-11-06 04:31:48 · update #1

26 answers

Honey trust me in the end you would have wasted your time. I know friends who have the "revenge on ex" thing and only ended up feeling sorry for themselves, because the guy was happy to see how miserable their lives were. My advise is you take this opportunity to find happiness and thank him for whatever he's done because now you know he wasn't worth the effort. He's probably out having fun while you're here plotting against him, go out and have fun too. once it's over let it be over. You being happy will make him worry and thats enough, they never want to see us happy after they're gone so when they do see you enjoying life, they get confused and feel like they've made a mistake, thats revenge.

2006-11-06 04:30:27 · answer #1 · answered by kimmie 3 · 3 0

There are some good answers to your question. I think that you must
1) get a make over, new hair, clothes etc.
2) Never go out unless you look drop dead gorgeous
3)Borrow a friends dishy husband and let your ex him see the guy coming to your house
4)Always be very happy when you see him
5) If you get the chance thank him for doing you the biggest ever favour as it has changed your life forever
6)If you do all of this often enough you will feel better
7)Get a baby sitter and join a drama group - great for meeting new people.
Good luck

2006-11-06 04:43:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

The way I take revenge is to go on and live a happy life without them. If they are the ex than I wouldn't waste another second of my life on them. Its not in my character to seek out revenge. Karma will take care of that for me.

2006-11-06 04:28:35 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1 0

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2016-10-21 08:56:04 · answer #4 · answered by freudenburg 4 · 0 0

Prawns sewn into curtains or any kind of fish stuffed somewhere he doesn't look very often. Cress seeds sprinkled on the carpet and watered when he is away.

But really, bagging a hot younger man is the best revenge.

2006-11-06 04:26:52 · answer #5 · answered by Katya-Zelen 5 · 1 0

The best revenge you could have is to be really happy whenver he sees you. Act like you are on top of the world and he will probaby be quite miffed that you got over him so quickly. OR you could spread a rumor (especially to his mates) that he like to wear frilly knickers in bed. Failing that, post a really embarrasing (preferably naked and cold!) picture to his new girlfriend.

2006-11-06 04:31:06 · answer #6 · answered by dan 3 · 1 0

i think the best way is to CUT HIM OUT OF EVERY PART of your life. DO NOT answer calls or text messages. DO NOT send abusive messages, etc. don't go to places you might bump into him. make yourself COMPLETELY INVISIBLE to him in every way. do not answer the door to him. change your social circle /activities if they involve him in any way. do not give him any reaction or emotion whatsoever. i think the best "revenge" is "non - revenge" in a way. if you take revenge you are showing how deeply you feel about him, albeit negative. a non-reaction is more poweful i think, and shows that you just don't care enough even to bother thinking about doing anything to him
good luck xxx

2006-11-06 04:36:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I believe that if you are confident, happy, and at ease with yourself, you will give an aire of radiance, beauty, and peace within your heart, and it will show physically. You are becoming a new you..... don't worry about making him jealous. It is now about you and defining yourself. You will be personally successful, and it doesn't have to be financial. Just celebrate life!!!

2006-11-06 04:31:56 · answer #8 · answered by KATHERINE 1 · 1 0

You have been given some good advice in your answers. you are well rid of a total loser it sounds like. at least the kids are very young and will adapt for you quickly. show him you are well and getting on with your life, he wont like it and neither will she especially if your prettier than her and you got his kids she will always have a slight fear. look good and dont grovel for him back. good luck chick.x

2006-11-06 05:10:29 · answer #9 · answered by angelalways 2 · 0 0

ok if you have an wx and you think he deserves revenge then i would get one of his secrets and make a sign out of it...then you put it up around the city...

Or you could also just sit there and ask to be on the radio for something hard and metion it.

2006-11-06 04:29:37 · answer #10 · answered by blondie2_94 2 · 0 1

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