Here is the deal: I have no problem getting girls. My problem is whenever i get them even if they are hot for some reason i always push them away. I'm 17, i've had one serious relationship.
I am thinking its either because i'm still in love with the girl or maybe i am gay.
I check out guys. When i watch porn im looking at the guys thing more than the girls, but i can still get off to lesbian porn. I would make out with a guy, i would probably blow a guy but i dont know how much further i would go.
I like sports and fighting. Guy stuff. I'm a huge pervert. I'm trying to figure out if i'm gay or bi or what, someone please help me.
2006-11-06 04:17:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You can be gay and still be masculine, just the same as someone can be straight and be feminine. There is nothing wrong with being gay. It sounds like you might be, and at the very least you could be bisexual.
2006-11-06 04:22:03 · answer #1 · answered by sangheilizim 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are 17 years old. It's ok to be confused and have questions. You are still becoming the person you need to be. So I guess for starters it mught be wise to explore the possiblity that you may be BI or Gay. Even if you find out that you are gay, remember you will be loved for who you are by many people and God. Contrary to many on here he loves everyone.
I would suggest you explore this side of you. Perhaps find a gay man or two to talk to and ask some questions. Then maybe find a nice guy around your age to teach and show you some stuff. Remember one thing. Make your first expereince the best you can. Find the right guy, not someone just out there to screw you over. Find someone with compassion and understand of where you are and what you need right now. Good luck.
2006-11-06 04:26:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you're so confused. It's a difficult time at that age, and mine - I'm two years younger than you.
I wouldn't settle on you being 'fully' gay just yet. You may just be curious.
There is nothing wrong with any orientation: straight, bi-curious, bisexul, gay or lesbian.
You might want to experiment a little bit, not go whore yourself out, but you might try some things with someone you trust and who you think you could have a relationship with. Who knows, this may be a 'phase' and might pass.
Good luck!
2006-11-06 04:22:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well you sound like a nice guy so i will help you OK check it out if you find a man you think you want try to experiment if you end up wanting to go farther then you would normally then you might be gay and don't worry i like to watch the girls more then the guys but i no what i like so its OK you might find that you really like girls so if you don't want to go to all the bases with a guy you might just be curious well good luck in your choice and hjope this helped
2006-11-06 04:30:34 · answer #4 · answered by duckie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to be so hard on yourself,OK? Check out the link below.
This may give you some helpful insight. 17 isn't too young to be questioning your sexuality.Be honest with yourself.There is nothing wrong with you.You may be bisexual, you may be heterosexual and fantasizing, or you may be homosexual. You have a lifetime ahead of you to find answers. What are your motives? If you are honest with yourself, the answer will come easily. Good luck to you!
2006-11-06 04:29:53 · answer #5 · answered by auntgnu62 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be gay. You may be straight.
What I get from your post is only that you are HORNY. This is a direct product of being a 17 year old boy.
Only you can figure out your "leanings, tendencies, or lifestyle." (I hate PC language). Don't let anyone else convince you of what you are.
2006-11-06 04:22:45 · answer #6 · answered by Jay 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your bi because you like guys but you have had a gurl before and you like lesbian porn. Dont worry with time you'll figure it out just keep searching for the answer. Goodluck
2006-11-06 04:20:59 · answer #7 · answered by lola 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
"Sounds gay to me Bert!"
"I'll second that one Ernie!"
If straight women can get off to lesbian porn, so can gay men. It sounds like you're at the least bi, but if you have no desire for women and want to be intimate with men, then by most people's standards you're gay. Welcome to the community!
2006-11-06 10:45:00 · answer #8 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Gay
2006-11-06 04:20:54 · answer #9 · answered by bamhse5 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You look at straight porn.
You look at lesbian porn.
Do you ever look at, and get turned on by, gay porn?
2006-11-06 06:10:51 · answer #10 · answered by zea_m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋