I've been unemployed for 6 mos. What do I tell family members I haven't seen in a while?

Question

I've tried to find a job, with no success. I've applied at libraries, schools, the hospital, nursing homes, the Air Force (and was rejected because of my eyesight) and for retail jobs. I just got out of school in May, and feel I'm at my wits end. I want a job, and I'm trying hard to get back into the work force, but nothing's coming up. My father says it's hard right now, and that since we live in an economically depressed area, retailers probably won't hire me since I have a degree (there are a lot of uneducated people where I live who'd work for a lot less money).
I'm in the process of getting into substitute teaching, but it will be at least a month before I can do that. Also, I'm going to take civil service exams, but the tests aren't until January and Feb, and I won't get the results back until months after that.
I have an appointment with a temp agency on the 15th.
I just don't know what to do, or what to say anymore. I'm worried I'll get mad and yell at them.

Answer 1

First of all, stop worrying about what other people think and concentrate your efforts on finding what you are looking for. I have learned that family can be your worst critics and if they do look down on you, just tell them that you are not setting your course based on their negativity.
Put all of your energy into looking for what you want.
I worked a job that many of my family members really frowned upon. I was a cocktail waitress for nearly 30 years. I chose to do this while my children were young because of the hours and I was very good at what I did. I earned more money than all of those who criticized me, and did it with my head held high because I knew I was making an honest living.
When "I" decided that it was enough, I was no longer enjoying what I did, I started to explore my options. I went out and bought books on how to earn an income from home, which was where I wanted to be. You cannot imagine the growth process I went through, but the end result was I started my own business and now have nearly all the family members working with me. I no longer worry about retirement, because I have residual income, and my 71 year old father is now earning an income from home. I am doing what I love...helping people.....and earning a great income doing it.
My job is recession proof so there is no need to worry about living in an economically depressed area, as I receive leads from all over North America as well as other countries. Most importantly, I help people with their health and wealth.

Answer 2

Don't put that you have a degree on your app for retail you will probably have to work for like 7.00 an hour but at least it is something. I graduated in May also i had a retail job all through school so i kept working it but even that was not full time just like 20 hrs a week i just got a job and started working two weeks ago
As far as family goes just say i am still looking let me know if you see anything out there

Answer 3

Just tell them the transition from a degree to a professional job is a lot harder than you expected in your area, and that you are currently looking for something else until you can get into that position you want. They don't need to know anything else. And are you actually doing that - have you tried applying at WalMart, or a grocery store, or even a McD's? There has to be a job out there somewhere for you, are you turning jobs down cuz it's not enough money? Just get a job no matter what it is, so you don't look like a bum, & continue to work there until a job that you went to school for wants to hire you.

Answer 4

I would say something like "I'm still looking, the market is tight right now. If you know of anyone hiring, please let me know!" Once you have the substitute teaching credentials or are on with the temping agency you can say "I'm substitute teaching at the moment, still looking for that perfect fit, do you know of anything?" or "I'm temping right now, etc. see above." Be patient with folks, they don't mean anything critical, it's a natural question to someone newly out of school to show that you are interested in what is going on with them. And remember, anyone might turn out to have a lead on a good job--their company might be hiring and they can put in a good word, or they might be in a position to hire you themselves! If it's hard to be patient when people ask about your employment status, try to keep that part in mind! Good luck!

Answer 5

Something will come along. I was out of work for 5 months and was a substitute teacher during that time also. I say just let everyone you know help. I say it's not what you know but who you know.

The temp service is a good place to start. Alot of those jobs become permanent...mine did, and I LOVE it.

Hang in there!

Answer 6

I understand where you are coming from; I too have been out of work, but for 7 months. I would tell them whatever you feel comfortable telling them about the situation. If anyone has suggestions, listen to them and hear them out, but you are the only one who can decide what to do. If somebody asks, answer them and then just switch the subject quickly if you don't want to talk about it. Most people will tell you are uneasy about talking about it and won't mind switching the subject. Good luck finding work.

Answer 7

If your daughter obtained served in a rap wrestle, you should not name the law enforcement officials, you must take her to the clinic. Getting served is a major hazard to a character's well being and would even turn out deadly. The most effective method you'll be able to remedy your daughter is to serve the character that served her.

Answer 8

Sorry you're having such a hard time. You might have more luck if you were willing to move to an area where the economy is better. In the meantime, just tell people that you're exploring your options, which is true from what you've said. If you wish, you can tell them some of what you've told us, but you're certainly not obligated.

Answer 9

I may be able to help. Send me some info about your previous employment and your education. Do you have any business management skills? I am often interviewing people for positions with my company. Work locations are flexible. Income can be high, benefits are great. I will send back an email interview questionnaire. Bruce at [e-mail]

Answer 10

Ok, is there a WAWA, or other place where you can get a temporary job? Grocery stores are a good place for temporary jobs, ....so please try temporary....to hold your over until the substitute teaching comes through...and you can spend your great amount of energy.....

tell anyone that you are between jobs......and that you are gladly accepting offers and may consider other career fields.