This is to all those people who have been dumped and then your ex has gotten with one of your friends. I am in this situation and would really appretiate it if i could have some good advice on how to get my own back on both of them. He broke my heart and she broke my friendship. I know people say revenge isn't the the way but in this case it is! Anything i could do to get my own back big or small. Please let me know. Cheers.
2006-11-06 03:19:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I have to agree with Scott who answered. Why lower yourself to their level? Instead be grateful that she is stuck with this fella who broke your heart so badly. Karma has a wonderful way of getting back at people and trust me he will break her heart soon also. That will be your best revenge.
2006-11-06 03:23:58 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't get back big or small. You have two people who do not value you as a friends. They are very deserving of one another. Try to go about your life and try to be happy.
Think of him giving you a gift. You broke up and he taught you that she was not a friend and not trustworthy, so you are rid of him and her. They can't be negative factors in your life anymore....
It is a good lesson, yet a hard one to learn. if you see red flags popping up in a friendship or relationship, listen to your subconscious and act upon it. There were probably little things that went on that you brushed off. Think back....
Your heart will mend re the ex bf, it might take longer for the ex gf.... that is true deceit and hurts alot more.....
If you go in the other direction by trying to hurt either one of them, you will prove to everyone that you really weren't worth much and you weren't any better than them... Really think about it, get, hurt, get mad, punch a few pillows, then get happy that you are rid of trash in your life.
2006-11-06 11:51:07 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 40 years old and in my second marriage,i have been married for 20 years but when my first marriage ended i felt the same way. Well i never did anything revengeful and now i see it as a learning experience that has made me expect more from my friends,lovers etc. You deserve to now look for people of a higher class and be happy. God bless and one day you will thank them both.
2006-11-06 11:26:11 · answer #3 · answered by milo2angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing that you can do to pay them back. Honestly the best thing for them is time. They will be paid back by karma, and it will be worse then what they have done to you.
Be nice and smile and say how good they look together, they expect you to be mad, but dont give them what they want, instead give them the opposite, and leave them wondering why you are smiling. Tell them both, thank you for doing you a huge favor, since " I was going to end it with you anyway, but really didn't know how since I didn't want to hurt your feelings" and "I am really glad you and he are together since I have outgrown our friendship and was trying to distance myself from you, now I won't have to feel guilty, since you have someone to hang out with. This will get to them both.
2006-11-06 11:44:28 · answer #4 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is nothing! Make yourself happy and forget them . They prolly did u a huge favor and you just don't know it yet .Make new friends and find a new b/f and forget them altogether.good luck to you.
2006-11-06 11:23:51 · answer #5 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave it any ;ad that does that is a prick it all happens to us we all get hurt and its hard.i no im hurtin bad at the moment.u fel like your on your own well yu arnt .u have people around you that support u and care for you just move on u can do better.
2006-11-06 12:20:00 · answer #6 · answered by bex j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best revenge is to move on with dignity and hang your head high, do not resort to violence or trickery, it will make you feel good for a moment but then later you will feel bad.
2006-11-06 11:22:45 · answer #7 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put shrimp inside the curtain rods.
Seriously tho...like the other answer said, dont stoop to their level.
2006-11-06 11:24:00 · answer #8 · answered by Ink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah..dont do anyting foolish..I know it hurts like hell right now..but maybe they deserve each other..she is not a friend.and he is not a good boyfriend/friend..when you see them..the best revenge is to be nice..say hi..like it doesnt bother..(even though deep down it is)...but the trick is let see that it doesnt phase you one bit..
2006-11-06 11:36:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont stoop to their level and just move on
2006-11-06 11:21:22 · answer #10 · answered by scottb03gt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋