do you think it is possible to find a date with a woman who would either share her clothes or like to dress me up in my own? I have one now but she is on her way to heaven
2006-11-06 03:01:27 · 15 answers · asked by George G 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Yes dear - of course you can - I've been telling women on this site about this very same issue - but they seem reluctant to believe that probably many of their 'straight' husbands are doing the same thing when they are out! So, the sooner these women realize that this is nothing to do with homosexuality the better!
Good luck
2006-11-06 03:05:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My condolences concerning your wife.
It is possible, although highly unlikely, that you could find a girl who tolerates or appreciates your cross dressing interest. I think sites like adultfriendfinder.com and alt.com have place for you to express that interest in your profile and you can start your search in that context. As for "sharing her clothes" you have to remember that the typical woman is a tad bit smaller than men, so don't hang on that one too much when the rest of her compatibility issues work out.
As for the "cross dresser who is straight"--most are. Technically, you are a transvestite, but popular usage leaves that term for the homosexuals who are advertising their preference.
BTW, while you may have "normal" reasons for cross dressing, as "normal" as cross dressers can be, if you find yourself wanting to pose as your ill wife, that is a sort of substitution issue that you need to bring up to a counselor. Possibly not your pastor, but a psychologist who has additional seperation from the on-going relationship you have with your clergy. Certainly see your clergy about dealing with your grief, but this has baggage that goes beyond the kind of coping with a loss that your pastor is usually prepared to deal with and that doesn't affect your standing in the church if that were the case--but if you persue that direction, you might want to back out before there is embarrassment for you and them--as a certain Colorado preacher recently made a good example of. Cross dressing is one thing, grief is another, and the psychologist is best able to help you deal if they are connected, okay?
2006-11-06 03:16:01 · answer #2 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think a number of women are turned on by the fantasy of a man in women's clothing. I have a friend whom I helped to dress in drag for a benefit and I had never had sexual feelings for him before; but when I saw him decked out and gorgeous as a woman, I so wanted to jump his bones! And I told him about it, too. It was interesting and we were all adults...and once he changed back into his regular guy clothes the feelings went away, but had I been allowed to rip the dress off of him I definitely would have ravaged him!
2006-11-06 03:06:22 · answer #3 · answered by cmpbush 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok guy. You dont must be gay, or be turning out to be a woman, to prefer to placed on ladies clothing. Many adult men get exhilaration from the sensation of being in womens clothing. it must be a fetish, a convenience situation, or a boundry situation, the two way, do what makes YOU comfertable. needless to say, your loved ones would be weirded out until eventually now each and every thing, regardless of if in case you clarify which you're feeling "good" in ladies clothing, and which you dont intend to leave the residing house or placed on the clothing each and every of the time, that should lighten the blow. this is going to be confusing on your loved ones to hearken to, yet you need to do it, regardless of if this is who you're, then don't be ashamed or embarissed. you at the instant are not on my own, and via no ability does this make you gay or a woman.
2016-10-15 10:48:05 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most cross-dressers or transvestites (trans = cross, vest = clothing) are straight, so don't worry. You can try placing an ad in the 'alternative' section of your local alternative paper, or on craigslist. It's good to be honest about this up front.
2006-11-06 03:03:33 · answer #5 · answered by Cobalt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This made me smile. Any thing is possible and as a woman, I love the feel of being "naked".
2006-11-06 03:08:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup I'm sure you'll find the one someday. Good luck.
2006-11-06 04:51:43 · answer #7 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
who knows....;) as long as you feel happy go for it. just be open on your dates, tell them your "issue", if their reaction is not like "perve" or "go away" or stuff like that and she has similar size as you then it is a match made in haven...:) not too likely but keep the fait dude:)
2006-11-06 03:03:57 · answer #8 · answered by VeronicaB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will probably take a while. Be patient, there`s someone for everyone.
2006-11-06 03:04:37 · answer #9 · answered by Hamish 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen, most guys these days wear girls pants and **** im sure you can find some1
2006-11-06 03:03:03 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋