if a person says that im stalking him ,even though im not, can I get arrested?

Answer 1

"even though I'm not" . . . ?

You need to look carefully at your actions and what it is that you are doing that would make him feel like you are stalking him. Following somebody or driving past their work or home over and over again is very much stalking activity. Repeated phone calls, emails and letters are also stalking behaviors. If you do not have an ongoing relationship with this person, be careful how you interact with him.

And the advice to get a restraining order is not a good idea. Stalkers are often people looking for control over their victims. Applying for a restraining order would only look more controlling.

I would suggest that; after evaluating your behavior, you do your best to avoid this person. You don't have to go out of your way. After all, you have as much right to go where you want as he does, but if there is a concern, you might want to make sure you're not doing anything to make it worse.

Answer 2

You could if they showed enough reason to believe you are. If you are not, that is unlikely.

I suggest you get a restraining order against him. He sounds psycho. That will substantiate your claim that you are not stalking him (but perhaps the other way around).

Answer 3

Only if you destroyed some property or they had proof that you threatened him, which in that case really would only warrant a restraining order.