Why are some people so threatened by homosexuals?

Question

So what they're different from you, get over it. Why can't you just let them live their life while you live your life? You don't have to be friends with them if you don't want to but why do you want to deny them the unalienable right of "the pursuit of happiness"?

Why are they so full of hate for gays/ lesbians? Maybe they don't know any???

Please enlighten me.

Answer 1

I agree with you 100%. I think there are many reasons why people are threatened by homosexuals. Many people hate anything that they don't understand. And then there are others who want to force their religions down people's throats. Several people still hang on to stereotypes such as homosexuality being a disease/disorder. And there are many who simply hate everyone who's different from them.

Oh, and before some idiot responds by saying that marriage is a religious institution and therefore homosexuals should not be allowed to marry, I'm going to address the issue... If your opinion is that homosexuals should not marry simply because marriage is a religious institution then why are people permitted to marry without the permission of the church? Why do people get their marriage licenses from the government rather than the church? Why are people permitted to have civil ceremonies? The truth is that, your arguement would only be valid if you were also argueing that NO ONE should get married unless they were religious. Your arguement would only be valid if you were in favor of taking marriage out of the hands of the government altogether.

I'm sick of religious arguements against homosexuality. To these people who feel that homosexual marriage should not be permitted because "God" doesn't approve--- Do you suggest that laws be passed which ban premarital sex? Do you suggest that laws be passed which ban "partaking of anything harmful to your body"? Do you suggest that laws be passed which force you to pay tithes? Do you suggest that laws be passed which force you to attend church? We are supposed to be have the freedom to choose our own religion (or to not choose one). Not permitting homosexuals to marry is just one way of trying to force a religion on people.

And as far as the effects that homosexuality has on children is concerned... What effects? Do you have some kind of proof that it adversely affects children? Treating homosexuals like they're "bad" is what can cause confusion for children. If children are taught that it's ok to live your own life then they won't have negative feelings and confusion. I've heard some people say that they believe children will be influenced into "turning gay", which is a ridiculous arguement because the same could be said with regards to heterosexuality. Sexual behavior is LEARNED. No one is born one way or the other. Therefore children can feel pressured and be influenced just as easily by both homosexuals AND heterosexuals. What's important is to teach children that everyone has a right to their own lifestyles.

Oh, and there's the arguement that homosexuality is dangerous to marriage.... HOW?!!! My marriage is wonderful. And I haven't met one single person who has experienced marital problems because of homosexuality.

Answer 2

For some, they use their religion as a way to be bigoted against them. Those are the "its a sin against God, therefore our government must not support them" crowd. However, most people are simply afraid that, if we start treating lesbians and gays like human beings, giving them the same rights as straights, it would increase the chance that their kids could turn out gay. That is the "its a sickness/disease that one can catch with any exposure" crowd. Finally, there are the people who are struggling to repress gay tendencies who cover their personal issues by their prejudices. Those are the "I'm secretly gay but nobody will ever know because I am so anti-gay" people.

Answer 3

My best girl is gay, it doesn't bother me, when she comes to visit I live in a small town mostly older folks. They just stare, you can tell she is butch. And I know most of the people think, look at those lesbians, but its ok, I even let her post gay questions on here under my screen name. She is my best friend for over 15 yrs. What she does in her bedroom is her business, and what that man, and woman next door do in there bedroom is there business. I am sorry people treat you bad, you need a friend that will hang out, and not care. Good Luck. )O(

Answer 4

I don't think anyone is actually "threatened" by homosexuals. Most people who have a problem with it don't feel threatened, they just feel strongly that it is wrong. The same way they would feel about any other thing they think is wrong. To some people a homosexual is as bad as a murderer or thief or child molester. Their belief's tell them that it is a sin, but they don't realize things like over-eating and drinking and many other things are sins too. They just pick the thing they feel is the easiest to attack and attack it.

To me, if you think anything is wrong that's fine, but you aren't supposed to hate or condemn someone that is doing it.

Answer 5

Christianity considers homosexuality as fallacious. It is an immoral sin similar to homicide, rape, stealing, mendacity, coveting, lusting, and many others. It is in particular threatening in ultra-modern society considering the fact that of all of the latest political battles to legalize a homosexual marriage. For extra on Christianity see my internet website online beneath.

Answer 6

I"m not threatened at all.. when was the last time a gay person punched anyones lights out?? lol... I know a few personally and like them as people but don't understand them at all. and the thought of them adopting children is totally disgusting... know they aren't threatening... only thing they can whip is their luvers butts.

Answer 7

I don't feel that way, but I know people who do -and I think it comes down to discomfort. People don't like to be faced with things that they are raised to believe are "unnatural" or "odd." A good deal of people will also base this opinion on the Bible and God. But those are two things in themselves that are highly debatable. Morals are defined by man, no matter how much people would like to think otherwise.

Answer 8

I think it's easy to fear what you don't understand.

It's easy to be frustrated by intolerance of gays. I think a good approach for you to take is to try to get to know the people, understand their beliefs about homosexuality and then share yours. If you only get angry and shut people out, then that just fuels the fire. That's just my 2 cents.

Answer 9

Well because its morally wrong and against their Bible of course? Didnt you know that social policy dictated by religion is the only way to go?
Who knows ya know, I feel that being homosexual is wrong and I dont really like it, and I dont have to like it but I still support their right to marriage. I am religious so that does influence my thinking on it, at the same time I do think they are born that way, but according to my religion it is wrong.
I would never tell them they cant get married or be who they are though. That is their personal choice, not mine and my religious beliefs are not adequate for legislating ones sexual preference.

Answer 10

hi. im a lesbian and the harrassment i have recieved is unreal! where i live it took only a day for people to be chatting my buisness behind my back and 1 of my neighbours said that someone who lives near me asked her not to talk to me again as i might come on to them. lol its almost laughable. i refused to move house as i was close to breaking point but im glad i stuck it out im happy now and people just ignore me :-(. people are afraid of something that might want to try themselves.