2006-11-06 00:41:03 · 10 answers · asked by 28March2007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would print up a pretty card that says just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them too, doesn't mean they don't love you with all their heart
2006-11-06 02:17:38 · answer #1 · answered by algalinpink 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's got a huge insecurity problem. That's not something a person can just turn off. All you can do is assure him that you love him. He needs to work thru this problem and become a more confident person.
2006-11-06 08:48:18 · answer #2 · answered by Darcee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's one of two things, either he's just lacking in attention and this is how he gets it from you, or he is simply trying to manipulate you by trying to make you feel guilty. He isn't necessarily cheating, but that IS a possiblity.
2006-11-06 08:46:38 · answer #3 · answered by flashpro 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There's a psychological concept known as "projecting." Essentially what it means is that you project your own inadequacies, your own self-hatred if you will onto other people. So rather than recognize your problems as coming from within (as in "I hate myself") you project them onto other people ("You hate me.")
So when your husband says YOU don't love HIM, what he cannot bring himself to say is that HE doesn't love YOU.
2006-11-06 08:48:42 · answer #4 · answered by wineboy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
So even though you DO love him, he's saying, "No, you don't love me." And it makes you feel bad.
You know what he's doing? It's his way of saying he doesn't love you. But he's trying to make it sound like it's your fault.
Next, he'll cheat on you, but he'll blame you because you didn't love him enough.
Time to move on.
2006-11-06 09:13:48 · answer #5 · answered by AnswerMom 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How if you do shock therapy. You just offer him to divorce, and look his reaction.
I think your husband need help from professional (psychologist)
But I hope he's just kidding to you to make you more love him.
2006-11-06 08:56:38 · answer #6 · answered by eddy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask him what he needs to feel loved. Find out what he wants and needs. Thats about all you can do.
2006-11-06 08:44:40 · answer #7 · answered by shellese2 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he is feeling insecure about some part of your relationship. I'd ask him to give me examples of what makes him feel this way.
2006-11-06 08:44:52 · answer #8 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He's cheating
2006-11-06 08:43:52 · answer #9 · answered by Abu 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sexual intercourse his brains out then give him head.
2006-11-06 08:44:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋