i like girls and i get aroused when i seea good looking one , but sometimes i thnik some guys are good looking but i dont get aroused when by them. Sometimes whe ni about to wake up from a dream, like when i basically can get up at anypoint i think of men but women too when im actually dreaming. Also, when i masturbate i do it to women but i get a faintest image of a guy like so faint but it gos away in a second and the girl comes back. Am i bi, gay , or straight. I am about 16 yrs old plse help, I dont want to be gay
2006-11-05 23:37:32 · 9 answers · asked by kotomo 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
From what I've read, it's not unusual at your age to have these kinds of thoughts about people of your own sex. I myself had them about girls in school when I was your age (I'm female). However, I am straight. You sound like you are straight. But there's nothing wrong with being gay, aside from the fact that gays are unfairly discrimated against.
2006-11-05 23:43:24 · answer #1 · answered by jicour 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From what you described, you seems to be straight and an admirer of masculinity that wrapped and be wrapped by feminity.
You think some guys are good looking, but don't get aroused by them. You just have image of what a good look on a man should look like.
You think of men and women during dreaming, probably a sign that you have an image of what men and women should do,
When you masturbate thinking of women and get a faintest image of a guy that pop out and gone, maybe you're simulating a guy doing a girl?
2006-11-06 07:13:18 · answer #2 · answered by E A C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you say here you sound totally straight to me.
Every boy at 16 years of age is curious about sex. Thinking of men or women is by itself no indications that you are gay or straight or bi.
Dreaming of something does not mean you ARE what you dream.
Do not worry whether you are gay or bi or straight. Just have fun growing up.
2006-11-06 00:15:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just go with the flow. Who cares what you fantisize about no one knows but you. I wouldnt say ya gay for sure but it doesnt matter if ya are or not!
2006-11-06 04:39:06 · answer #4 · answered by cartoonhero55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a Kinsey 1. It is ok you just have a rich fantasy life it doesn't mean you ever have to act on it.
2006-11-06 01:28:50 · answer #5 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitely are not gay. Brush aside the idea.
2006-11-05 23:40:49 · answer #6 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are a perfectly normal straight teenager relax honey and enjoy your youth.
2006-11-06 00:01:14 · answer #7 · answered by jusme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok this helped, thnks iguess these feeling will eventually diminsish
2006-11-06 00:20:55 · answer #8 · answered by max b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your gay.
2006-11-05 23:40:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋