2006-11-05 22:42:22 · 8 answers · asked by praval s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Because of restrictions being imposed on them where they are still been treated as children where as they have reached their teens, hormonal changes, peer pressure, study pressure and parents pressure to excel.
The best way to deal in such situations is firstly accept that your daughter has finally grown up now and to stop treating her like a child. Instead of being a strict parent you have to now change the role and become a friend. You have to gain her confidence by showing your trust in them as in if they want to go for a party where she want to go with her friends you to allow her but at the same time giving her a deadline. Speaking to her as a friend not as a parent.
Give them space they like being alone or with their friends just don't keep checking on them all the time. They are also dealing with peer pressure so the best way is if you can be their friend they will eventually discuss things with you and take you advise but only if they ask.
Basically be their friend and be there for them.At the same time don't let go completely once in a while check if they are studing, know their friends and know where your child is going. Give them space and see it will work.
2006-11-05 22:54:08 · answer #1 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because they think that their family is dragging them down. Adolescents are at a stage of experimentation where they try to test what is good or bad by trying them out. And, of course, their families wouldn't want them to try something that they know would surely be bad for their child, so they top the kid... and in turn, the teen thinks that their family misunderstands them.
To tackle this, you simply have to enlighten the kid while they're still young, but when they're mature enough to understand, like by ten or twelve years old, the parents can teach the child about gambling and stuff like that.
2006-11-06 07:35:50 · answer #2 · answered by Ayuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the teen stage, everyone wants to be independent and I too hate it when mom or dad keep you asking "how was your day?", "What happened today?" and all such questions and all you say them is "Okay". It's a stage where you want to spend more time wid your frnds. Guys are more intimate to their parents so girls face this prob. It's nothing to worry about, it happens wid everyone. I'm at the same stage
2006-11-06 07:03:08 · answer #3 · answered by Black 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its because of the change in the environment and the generation gap whih was created because of the growth that the old and the new are not accepting each other thats why the difference is there.
2006-11-06 08:04:29 · answer #4 · answered by Ramasubramanian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know with the others but for me this is the situation I've ever wished for when I was still at my teen stage.
2006-11-06 06:49:41 · answer #5 · answered by AraClaire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teenage is critical stage nearing to womenhood so they are having a lot of doubts and anxities to them outer world is wonderful. But after sometime when they understand the truths it will ok.
2006-11-09 06:17:25 · answer #6 · answered by nanu T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The main reason could be lack of understanding.What you think is good family env. might not be what everyone likes. Especially younger generations.the best thing to do would be care 4 their feelings and make them comfortable in the family env. not by force but by love and understanding.
God bless you.
2006-11-06 06:49:59 · answer #7 · answered by Life's Good!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just chill this happens with all of us also just keep calm &quiet u will find some way u just ask ur parents about this situation
go out with ur family to dinner ,parties etc u will surely get a change there
2006-11-06 06:50:47 · answer #8 · answered by sweetu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋